Oh man, I can only imagine. Remember when we first filed in May and just look at how much time has passed and we're pretty much in the same position. The major difference being that I'm with my husband (doing squat, granted, and yeah, I feel like my life is "oh hold" too, in a different way) and you're not. So yeah, I can only imagine. I don't know if it's just causing a bit of strain on your relationship (which is normal) or if it's something worse than than, but I can't believe that he wouldn't be sensitive to how hard it is for you and the fact that there's little in your control. You guys need to be taking refuge from the stress by being together even if you have to do it is some small, virtual, unsatisfying way......not bringing even more stress on each other. So yeah, I really hope that you get access to a working computer again soon as that seems to be the lifeblood of your relationship at this point. I had read this on a thread someone set up here to talk about ways to spend quality time together while being geographically apart, and they suggested that you could actually make it so that you "date" using the computer - the trick is to prepare the same meal, eat it at the same time, and perhaps watch the same film together simultaneously - voila, a virtual date night (of course, dressing up and having a web cam would help greatly). Yeah, it's nothing like the real thing but I can see how this can be touching. Until you can be together, it looks like you'll have to survive on your creativity, your empathy, and your patience. Best wishes.
