While no reminder required, I appreciate the thought.
We expect my wife's move to Canada (albeit with but 2 suitcases full of her worldly possessions) to quite likely end up as permanent. While we can perhaps say that honestly, we also have to admit to the fact that if she can't stand the place, then we'll return to live in the Phils. Does admitting to that possibility make us fraudsters? Are we courting a 5, 10 or 100-year ban for the dreaded crime of "misrepresentation"? If Canada refuses to grant a TRV for a prospective immigrant to come take Canada for a test drive, then it cannot come as too much of a shock to discover that some who come with intent to remain, find that they just cannot make that work and they go home.
I know full well I would not commit to a permanent move to another country I had never visited. For me, that applies even to another city or province. I was born in Vancouver, but grew up in Toronto. While in law school in Ontario, I thought about moving back to Vancouver. In those days, by the time you finished law school, you had to decide on province, since it was not easy to be able to practice law in more than one province. So, after first year law, I made a reconnaissance mission to Vancouver to check it out. If I had been told I would have to decide to move to Vancouver permanently, sight unseen, I might have stayed in TO.
This is so true. How can someone make a commitment to a place and want to stay there is never even "tested the waters". And, yes, the TRV thing is a joke. I would like to know who gets these approved, as we even applied and were denied. But our plan is still to live in Canada as this has been my home my whole life and it is a big change for him, but I'm sure he will love it.