I understand but if OP isn't satisfied with the answers so of course she'll ask again & again. It's just that we're not at her place.Theres nothing rude about anything anyone is saying. Not accepting anytging anyone is saying and getting stuck on the most minute thing is a but much. Sure its stressful but dont get lost in two words. Look at the big picture
She's so polite in her post. I feel she doesn't deserve such rude responses