guys i really appreciate your input. and I guess everyone on this forum is speaking from their own experiences.@pc8922
Not asking either to do exactly what i did.
I was just giving an example. As he mentioned its something to frowned on.
read carefully before taunting.
@ammarbinriaz
If u r OK with unnecessary delays
then go ahead as it is
something u need to do anyway
now or later
@Alhumdulleh as it was convenient for you and your family to do rukhsati with you going back to stay at your parents, it is something that me and my wife's family were not comfortable with. i agree every family has their own ways of thinking. nothing right or wrong in that.
@pc8922 I too was thinking the same that I would say that the event I did was my rukhsati. and may also say that me and my wife started living together. but would not they want some proof of both of us living together? also I have read some place that for rukhsati photos they require to see the rituals happening in those photos i.e girl saying good bye to their family, girl coming to her new home, her in laws welcoming her etc etc.
is this true?