I took all of these things into consideration, we have been together 4 years by choice.
Didn't criticize your relationship just commenting on the reasons why you should have been prepared for a long wait time.
Legal aid debts dont harm the application as they were for my divorce i am a born and raised canadian.
Didn't say that legal aid debt would have negative effects on your application although if you qualified for legal aid there would may have been a concern about your financial status st the time but things change in 4 years.
I used a representative for all these reasons. Like i said if the relationship was not genuine he could have married a German instead of gambling with such a long and difficult process.
If he married a German there would have likely been similar scrutiny of your application or even more. Failed asylum applicants get lots of scrutiny of their application when they marry someone in Canada. Although your husband isn't a failed asylum seeker but he doesn't have the ability to stay permanently in Germany.
Nothing would be a shock to me ( if they request an interview) we are ready for anything requested from us. We just want that request to be made. I dont think there is a problem with marrying a divorced woman, its 2019 not 1970.
Unfortunately not much more common than you think it in a variety of conservative communities living in Canada or abroad.
I work and have a good education the only thing missing in my life is him.