Most people aren't aware at all tbh. The consequence of a failed H&C becomes an uphill battle against parents being able to visit. Anyone would want to be warned of issues they could potentially face is H&C is rejected. Given how slim H&C's chances are for most, it wasn't a bad advice.
Take the advice you get here as a "Big Brother"/"Big Sister"s advice, they've an opinion(like how you and me we've got one too), you won't ever fully agree with it, but they don't mean ill.
Take the advice you get here as a "Big Brother"/"Big Sister"s advice, they've an opinion(like how you and me we've got one too), you won't ever fully agree with it, but they don't mean ill.