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vanilla

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Hi!
i got married 3 yrs ago with a Canadian national and .she sponsored me and i became landed immigrant 4 month ago and got my Permanent resident , Now she is asking me for divorce because according to her i am not the Perfect match for her.She says i was excepting something else but u are different so it is difficult for me to stay with this kind of a person . She is saying me that I should go back or otherwise she will make me deport. I am new to Canada and don't know the laws and other things. I just want to know that what is my legal status here and what can she can done worse with me.would i be deported ? Does this matter that who will take divorce .
 
Hi,

Pl. provide her mail-ir to me as becasue I am trying to got to CANADA witha sponsorship VISA.

Let me know
riju
 
rijumanm plz buzz off,ppl like u are the reason why people like me and many on this forum are having a hard time joining our loved ones in canada.

Vanilla, ur wife o should i say ex-wife,has no power to deport u,u are a PM of canada now and you both signed the undertaking so she is obliged by law to provide you a home and even your expenses for 3 years,i think thats why she is trying to get you out of canada,since she cant simply kick you out,why dont agree with her to stay in canada and promise to not take any support from her or the gov,since if you take any money from the gov she will be obliged to pay it back.

good luck man,hope all works out well for u
 
Vanilla, she can not have you deported. You are a PR and you have the right to stay. She wants you out because as a sponsor, she is responsible for you if you have to go on welfare. However, there is no reason to go on welfare, you should be able to get a job and make a living. You don't really have to have any communication with your ex again after you divorce so she should not have to care if you stay or not.
 
hello,
Thanx for the reply i am already doing a job . she was that she will file a complaint against me in CIC .Can you tell me that what CIC do about this type of cases .
 
Hi

vanilla said:
hello,
Thanx for the reply i am already doing a job . she was that she will file a complaint against me in CIC .Can you tell me that what CIC do about this type of cases .

Absolutely nothing.

PMM
 
There is nothing for her to file a complaint about - she signed an undertaking with her government to provide support for you for the next three years. If she doesn't want to stay married, that's fine - but that has nothing to do with your right to stay in Canada, or her obligation to you under the law.

This is clearly spelled out in the Sponsorship Agreement that is signed and submitted with the application. It is a contract between the applicant and the sponsor, and the following information implies that it's enforceable in court.

Obligations of the Sponsor

As sponsor, I promise to provide for the sponsored person's . . . basic requirements for a period that begins the day on which the sponsored person enters Canada and . . . becomes a permanent resident and ends: if the person is a spouse . . . on the last day of the period of 3 years following the day on which they become a permanent resident.
. . .
Basic requirements include food, shelter, clothing, fuel, utilities, household supplies, personal requirements and health care not provided by public health, including dental care and eye care.

I promise that financial obligations or other personal circumstances over the applicable period referred to above will not prevent me from honouring this agreement and the sponsorship undertaking I signed . . .

I promise that the sponsored person . . . will not have to apply for social assistance benefits; and

I promise to respond promptly to requests for help . . . by giving money, buying items or providing services for their living expenses.

Obligations of Person Being Sponsored

I promise to make every reasonable effort to provide for my own basic requirements . . .

I promise to ask my sponsor for help if I . . . am having difficulty supporting (myself) or meeting (my) own basic requirements.

Important Information

Sponsored persons who are being abused or assaulted by their sponsors should seek safety away from their sponsors even if this means they have to apply for social assistance benefits. A sponsor cannot force CIC to remove you from Canada.

An undertaking is unconditional and cannot be terminated. Under no circumstances does the granting of Canadian citizenship, divorce, separation or relationship breakdown, financial deterioration or moving to another Province cancel the undertaking.

Legal & Financial Consequences

If the sponsor does not provide support as required, the sponsored person can take legal action.

Do yourself a favour - be proactive and get yourself a good divorce attorney. Don't become a victim in all of this by being bullied into believing your soon-to-be ex has any ability to have you deported . . . she's just trying to get herself out from under the agreement she signed. Don't let her do it! I'm not saying you should quit your job and apply for social service benefits just to screw her . . . but know what your rights are and don't be intimidated into thinking you have to leave Canada . . . because the only thing she's trying to do is make things easier on herself. A good attorney will be able to tell you how to proceed. You are in Canada now, you have the right to stay here and make a life for yourself, regardless of whether it's with her or not.
 
hi
she and her family forced me to write on a blank paper that i have given her divorce .now what is the legal status of that writing on that paper. plz reply .Does that writing will be harmfull for me?
 
You can give her divorce but it has nothing to do with your PR.
 
i was saying that can she use that writing against me infront of authorities here,that i have given her divorce after getting PR and things like that.I know m sounding quite ridiculous but after all this i have become very pessimistic . All i have told is truth , but woman has advantage over men it is very hard to prove woman wrong .I know many who will read will think that i m wrong.
 
It doesn't matter if you divorce after you got PR. I will give examples. I saw on TV an interview with a woman. She sponsored her husband to come to Canada. As soon as he arrived he told her she was not his type and he left her. Then he went on welfare. As his sponsor, she had to pay his welfare back to the government. Then he went on disability. She had to pay this too. She asked the authorities to tell her what his disability is because she did not know that he was disabled and they told her that she does not have the right to know to protect his privacy, she only had the right to pay.

There was one woman on this board who was scammed by a husband who only married her for PR and after many lawyers and many problems, she finally managed to get him deported, not because he scammed her but because he had lied on his application form and said he was in some school over some 2 month period when he was really unemployed. If he had not lied on his application, he would not have been deported.

There was also one guy on here that said his wife he sponsored left him after 1 month and went on welfare and he reported her for fraud and it doesn't matter, immigration, police etc., nobody cared. He told another story of a woman who did not even let her husband know that she landed, she never went to live with him after landing. She was not deported either.

So even if you had committed marriage fraud, which you didn't, nothing would still happen to you. Supposedly it's against the law but once your wife has sponsored you and she has convinced immigration that your marriage is real, she can not go back to them a few months later and say she changed her mind. Even less reason for immigraiton to do anything when you had a real marriage that just didn't work out.

Find an immigrant or newcomer center in your area and go there for a chat or look for advice. I am sure they will tell you the same thing. Your wife only wants you to leave because she is afraid that you will go on welfare and she will have to pay. Maybe she really thinks that she can deport you. The truth is that she can't. Maybe she knows that she can't but she wants you to think that she can so she can scare you into leaving. Also don't sign any more papers for her or for her family unless you ask somebodys advice first to what they are making you sign.
 
hello,
i just came to know that my sponsor had filled a wrong date of marriage on the form of sponsor but cic didnt noticed at that time but now whether she can use that wrong date written by her against me as a lie to cic. i am sure that was a mistake because on every other document the date was correct and i also written the correct date. please reply
 
No,Nien,Nyet,No CIC will not punish you Si,Yes,Da,Oui,Ja you can stay in Canada Have a nice day