Think you need to research collective bargaining. You don't have a "union job" which usually refers to a job in the trades. You are likely employed by the provincial government and part of a union. 4K will be pretty tight given the high cost of housing in BC. Not saying that you may be able to find a better salary. The cost of housing is high in BC and there is a low vacancy rate. Don't think your budget will allow much going out. Rent, car, insurance, bills, food, pension contribution, benefit payment, taxes and hopefully a little bit of savings. Luckily you have child benefit for some of your child's cost. The benefit of your government job will be health benefits and some form of pension plan. As mentioned before most families don't have the luxury of having only one parent work if they live in an expensive area.