canuck_in_uk is not being stubborn. it is actually kind that canuck keeps on trying to clarify for you what is dictated by IRCC. you started this thread to ask for help and now that you are being given honest advice, you are arguing the person's point just because you don't like the answer. so my advice is, if you do not want to believe anyone here, get a lawyer if you don't already have one, and go through the link Copingwithlife gave at
http://ccrweb.ca/en/cessation-basic-information to get information yourself. but please do not argue with senior forum members who are here on their own free will, using their UNPAID time to help as much people as they can with immigration questions.