Hi,
I got married (in a Indian Temple) to the Permanent resident of Canada on 25th Aug 2011 and Registered our Marriage (In Indian Court) on 26th Aug 2011 in India after which my wife left for Canada. Before leaving for Canada my wife and I along with all hers and mine family members decided to have a full Traditional Marriage in India on 29th Jan 2012. We arranged this traditional marriage just for the sake of both sides relatives and friends who missed the initial wedding on 25th Aug 2011 as most of her family members live in Canada and they were not able to come at that time.
After the Traditional marriage on 29th Jan 2012 we had a honeymoon in February 2012 and then my returned to Canada. After which we applied for the Spousal sponsorship around April 2012. We got the application approved and One time Immigrant Visa (Dated 06 Aug 2012 with the expiry date of 19th Feb 2013) was stamped on my passport.
I started searching for a job in Canada so that I should not be a burden on my spouse as she was earning only 38K / Year at that time. And she also said that she wants me to find a job first. After trying my level best for around 6 months as I was in India nothing materialized. So I landed in Canada and became Permanent resident on 06 Feb 2013 and I stayed with my wife in Vancouver for 1 month. I returned to India on 6th March 2013. I kept searching for a Job in Canada but consultants told me that it would be very difficult if not impossible to get a job in Canada while I'm staying in India.
On 11 March 2013 my company (existing employer) deputed me to US location on H1B visa. After receiving my PR Card in April 2013 (My wife sent it to me in US). I requested my employer to depute me in Canada as they have a Incorporated Office in Toronto and Ottawa. They deputed me to Canadian Office in Toronto on 11 Aug 2013.
Since our marriage My spouse (Sponsor) started pushing me saying when you will buy a house for me in Canada and when you will make me financially secure. I used to reply that once I get a Job and after 4-5 years will buy a house and as far as Financial security is concerned I'm not a magic wand that can make people secure. Further, she started cribbing that you are earning a good salary in India ($ 24000 / Year) and you never asked me if I need anything. You never asked my parents (My sponsor's parents) who live in India if they need any support. In January 2013 her father asked for financial help on returnable basis but he never returned that money.
Last week when I called her she asked for $ 3000 and when I asked her why for what purpose she said you don't have to know. But later she told me that she has to pay for her CMA fee and she also told me that she had a loan of $ 20000.
Last night she said if you want to live with me then you have to take care of housing, rent, groceries, utilities and all other things and she is not going to pay a single penny from her pocket. She said that otherwise will live separately. These conditions and her money mindedness and lack of love coupled with frequent fights, name calling and other mental tortures are not acceptable to me. She was from the first day was asking for financial intimacy instead of love or caring.
So I need to know what are my option. Does Conditional Permanent Residency applies to me? I got my file approved in July 2012, got the immigrant visa to become permanent resident in Aug 2012 but I landed in Canada on Feb 2013 just before expiry of the visa as I was searching for a job in Canadian market.
Regards,
Roby
I got married (in a Indian Temple) to the Permanent resident of Canada on 25th Aug 2011 and Registered our Marriage (In Indian Court) on 26th Aug 2011 in India after which my wife left for Canada. Before leaving for Canada my wife and I along with all hers and mine family members decided to have a full Traditional Marriage in India on 29th Jan 2012. We arranged this traditional marriage just for the sake of both sides relatives and friends who missed the initial wedding on 25th Aug 2011 as most of her family members live in Canada and they were not able to come at that time.
After the Traditional marriage on 29th Jan 2012 we had a honeymoon in February 2012 and then my returned to Canada. After which we applied for the Spousal sponsorship around April 2012. We got the application approved and One time Immigrant Visa (Dated 06 Aug 2012 with the expiry date of 19th Feb 2013) was stamped on my passport.
I started searching for a job in Canada so that I should not be a burden on my spouse as she was earning only 38K / Year at that time. And she also said that she wants me to find a job first. After trying my level best for around 6 months as I was in India nothing materialized. So I landed in Canada and became Permanent resident on 06 Feb 2013 and I stayed with my wife in Vancouver for 1 month. I returned to India on 6th March 2013. I kept searching for a Job in Canada but consultants told me that it would be very difficult if not impossible to get a job in Canada while I'm staying in India.
On 11 March 2013 my company (existing employer) deputed me to US location on H1B visa. After receiving my PR Card in April 2013 (My wife sent it to me in US). I requested my employer to depute me in Canada as they have a Incorporated Office in Toronto and Ottawa. They deputed me to Canadian Office in Toronto on 11 Aug 2013.
Since our marriage My spouse (Sponsor) started pushing me saying when you will buy a house for me in Canada and when you will make me financially secure. I used to reply that once I get a Job and after 4-5 years will buy a house and as far as Financial security is concerned I'm not a magic wand that can make people secure. Further, she started cribbing that you are earning a good salary in India ($ 24000 / Year) and you never asked me if I need anything. You never asked my parents (My sponsor's parents) who live in India if they need any support. In January 2013 her father asked for financial help on returnable basis but he never returned that money.
Last week when I called her she asked for $ 3000 and when I asked her why for what purpose she said you don't have to know. But later she told me that she has to pay for her CMA fee and she also told me that she had a loan of $ 20000.
Last night she said if you want to live with me then you have to take care of housing, rent, groceries, utilities and all other things and she is not going to pay a single penny from her pocket. She said that otherwise will live separately. These conditions and her money mindedness and lack of love coupled with frequent fights, name calling and other mental tortures are not acceptable to me. She was from the first day was asking for financial intimacy instead of love or caring.
So I need to know what are my option. Does Conditional Permanent Residency applies to me? I got my file approved in July 2012, got the immigrant visa to become permanent resident in Aug 2012 but I landed in Canada on Feb 2013 just before expiry of the visa as I was searching for a job in Canadian market.
Regards,
Roby
