Kingston,Jamaica

[the mrs campbell]

Re: seperation

I'm so sorry Angela. I wish I can find the man I married too. I'm here in Jamaica and my suspicions were confirmed, saw the WhatsApp messages and listened to their voice recording to each other and There is a baby conceived after we married and he is with her. He spent four days with me...And left for work and has not come back. If he does it's not for love but the money he needs. He is not getting it. I'm going home in three days heartsick but with closure to move forward in my life.

Can he ever lie looking Me in the eyes and manipulate.
Pray that u find peace, Hun. Very sorry.

Hello room and forum members i have not been on here for a long time. I am not here to damper anyone's spirit i am just telling you my story. I sponsored my hubby to come up in 2009 he arrived nov 2010 we lived together for 5 years. We had our ups and downs in april 2014 he applied for his daughter who was 18 she arrived and my marriage took a turn for the worse. She came to Canada pretending to like me. Used me abused me verbally and her father said nothing. I came to my boiling point in dec 2015. I moved out left him with his bad daughter. He reached out to me in feb 2016 we tried talking but i was only fooling myself that hooves me he only wanted to come to Canada to take up his daughter who hated me and never wanted me in her life always wish i wud die. We have been seeing each other on and off since feb 2016. This past monday we met up he told me his now 20 year old daughter boyfriend is coming in from the usa to live with him. I asked him how is that going to work out and u live in a one bedroom he got mad and said wat do i want him to do throw her out i said the whole situation is messed up as his daughter did not give him enough notice plus wat she is doing is outta order and rude my husband said his daughter said its either my bf comes to our one bedroom or she will leave. I asked my husband wat is he going to do he said he will let him come stay with them and i told him well there is no more us as u chose a stranger to come live with you and no response concerning working us out of any future. People i have bent over backwards for this man to treat me like *censored word* you can't force a man to love you. I just wished he had the love he has for his daughter for me. I believe in marriage but one person cannot love alone. He chose a stranger over me now i see no future or sense talking to this man anymore since the daughter boyfriend came he hardly calls me i have now learned to slowly let go. I am very heart broken and wish i can find the man i married in 2008 that man is long gone

 

[hytltons12]

So it turns out that i submitted the 2015 notice of assessment, though at the time i did i never started the 2016 one, but they sent back the entire application saying that it is not recent. Thank God i have it and submitted everything again today. It is so frustrating because i first submitted the application the first week of January and there is just always something causing 1 month and a half delay, do they not understand how hard and frustrating this all is.

 

[JamaicanSnowflake]

Oh Ladies
I'm so sorry to hear these stories.
Stay strong (I know easier said then Done)

(((((((((Big Hugs))))))))

 

[Smithd]

Good day everyone. It has been quiet in here lately. I am wondering if anyone has some advice. My husband went for his interview Feb. 2, 2017. His non accompanying children medical had not been received by KVO yet so he did not get visa on spot. As of today we still have not heard anything and I am very frustrated. His police check expires April 26 of this month and I emailed KVO about this and this is what it said "As your file is pending, you may wish to obtain a new police certificate if your file is still open by April 26." I am trying to wait patiently but my patience is running out. Is there anything I can do.

 

[Tiffany21]

Good day everyone. It has been quiet in here lately. I am wondering if anyone has some advice. My husband went for his interview Feb. 2, 2017. His non accompanying children medical had not been received by KVO yet so he did not get visa on spot. As of today we still have not heard anything and I am very frustrated. His police check expires April 26 of this month and I emailed KVO about this and this is what it said "As your file is pending, you may wish to obtain a new police certificate if your file is still open by April 26." I am trying to wait patiently but my patience is running out. Is there anything I can do.

Hi...even though the children are not coming as the same time as spouse...they still have to do a medical check for the in time for spouses interview? I didnt know that I thought the the childrens medical could have been done at a later date as they would not becoming the same time has my spouse.

 

[Smithd]

They sent an email stating we needed to get the medicals done for the children. The medicals have to be done before.

 

[adt83]

They sent an email stating we needed to get the medicals done for the children. The medicals have to be done before.

Ugh. Sorry that you're still stuck in limbo waiting. How unfair and completely frustrating.

This is exactly the kind of situation I've have been worrying about... I was aware that medicals had to be done for dependents- even if non-accompanying, but had to get a passport for her first. We sent in our application, using the old one- back when you could just make an appointment. Now, because of the new apps, the doctors office told us we need a form from CIC. I emailed Kingston and they said to wait until we receive a request from them.

How far in advance did they send you the email prior to the interview?

Maybe reach out to your local MLA? See if they can get a little more information than you can.

 

[Smithd]

We did the application back in august 2016 and they sent the email 2 weeks before interview for kids medicals. We had a problem getting passports so the medicals weren't done until 4 days before the interview and CIC received the results a week later.

 

[adt83]

We did the application back in august 2016 and they sent the email 2 weeks before interview for kids medicals. We had a problem getting passports so the medicals weren't done until 4 days before the interview and CIC received the results a week later.

How frustrating. I'm just so sorry that you're still left to wait with no idea where things stand. Did they keep his passport after the interview?

 

[rcspousalsponsorship]

Re: seperation

I'm so sorry Angela. I wish I can find the man I married too. I'm here in Jamaica and my suspicions were confirmed, saw the WhatsApp messages and listened to their voice recording to each other and There is a baby conceived after we married and he is with her. He spent four days with me...And left for work and has not come back. If he does it's not for love but the money he needs. He is not getting it. I'm going home in three days heartsick but with closure to move forward in my life.

Can he ever lie looking Me in the eyes and manipulate.
Pray that u find peace, Hun. Very sorry.

Oh my gosh, so sorry you're experiencing our worst nightmare. Thanks for sharing your experience though, we're definitely mindful of it. I hope things work out in your favour. We've made such great sacrifice including time, money and heartache undergoing this sponsorship process I could only imagine what you're going through. Stay strong and I'm here if you need a shoulder.

 

[Smithd]

How frustrating. I'm just so sorry that you're still left to wait with no idea where things stand. Did they keep his passport after the interview?

No they didn't keep the passport. Said they would call him in 1 to 2 weeks for visa

 

[Lizann]

Anyone on here doing the new inland process? Hubby is coming on his visa and we plan to do inland so he gets an Open Work Permit while waiting for his permanent resident approval. I wonder if it will as fast as what I'm seeing on here. I commend you all for your patience, its been 6 months and I can't take the distance.

Hi - I didn't file my inland app under the new system but did so just before they changed it in the early part of December 2016. My husband has already gotten his open work permit in under 4 months as they promised - got his SIN # and has started working.

He came up on his visitors visa last year after we got married and then I submitted the inland app. We are both Jamaican and decided to go this route as we've been apart for long enough as it is. Yes he wont be able to travel until the residency is finalized but this way we both can explore Canada as so much of it is still new for me as I've only been here 5 years.

Hope that helps

 

[adt83]

No they didn't keep the passport. Said they would call him in 1 to 2 weeks for visa

Oh wow. That's absurd to still have you waiting 2 months later. I would highly suggest contacting your local MP.

 

[destinedlove]

Hi - I didn't file my inland app under the new system but did so just before they changed it in the early part of December 2016. My husband has already gotten his open work permit in under 4 months as they promised - got his SIN # and has started working.

He came up on his visitors visa last year after we got married and then I submitted the inland app. We are both Jamaican and decided to go this route as we've been apart for long enough as it is. Yes he wont be able to travel until the residency is finalized but this way we both can explore Canada as so much of it is still new for me as I've only been here 5 years.

Hope that helps

Thank you so much, this helps.

 

[destinedlove]

Can someone please direct me to the google doc tracking sheet.