Congrats ninirae!
I have been lurking around this forum since last year June. Long story short my husband was sent back to Jamaica due to over stay. We got married this January. I must say I was not confident in sending the application. I gathered all the information I needed and completed 99.9% of the application on my own. But like I said I was not confident. So I brought my application to an immigration consultant who was so impressed and did not really charge me that much compared to other immigration consultants (they were charging $3000+). I must say if it was not for the members of this forum I would not be able to get through the application.
The most difficult part of this process has been the scrutiny of family and friends. Being told that I am "stupid" for committing to this process or "u nuh seh him a gi u bun" or "you couldn't find anyone here to marry?"
This has me so depressed. I have not told people are work that I am married to avoid the questions and comments. I feel so alone and sometimes embarrassed. How do you ladies cope?
baby girl that is the typical respond from people hence why I have not told a soul other than my son I can tek the
badmindness so don't worry they're not saying nothing that has not been said before or will continue to say after...love will always be a gamble not matter where you find it]