im not in to this new age think like a man hogwash...half those women who try think like a man - have no man.
i dont want to think like no bloodclot man.....but press a button...........and i will get angry like one.
For me: being taken serious is extremely important>> to the extreme. My husband already knows my head can get hot, as can his, but he NOW knows im worse.
As a matter of fact he told me when i was down there that he has no idea i could cuss like that....and neither did i really ;D ;D............ i think the parish heard my wrath dont take me for some effing simpleton, based on the color of my skin......i went on flip mode, and didnt stop. Everyone got *censored word*.
few mins later i went to the shop, shop keeper is like : sometimes its healthy to leggo of emotions, i simply said i dont wanna talk about it....everything criss....he said 'i like that'
Few days later same shop keeper said he wished him and his wife, have what me and mine have....cause though i tore a strip off him, but night - we there hugging up in the middle of the road, rocking under moon light, like no ones even there, but all were there.
My Husband is the type of man who will not tolerate disrespect from anyone.....but he was so speechless, all he could do was sit there as i went wild.
i think part of that were suppressed emotions, and all emotions - that i had recently endured, but I unleashed the beast, to sayyy the least.
End result, i think my flip out gained me nuff respect....cause first time ever he aunt actually came and offered me food, then said not to be a stranger.
I told the whole place what i thought lol.....ppl hide in the house - his sister walked by....and very quickly....
But I as you can see, I'm not very productive today. At least I can close my office door and nobody bothers me. 
