Wow...just wow is all I can say. I’ve been married before in 2011 also to a Jamaican and after filing for him and bringing him here he turned out the same way. Within 6 months he was already back to Jamaica twice without me and told me we would never go together because he was going to visit family not for a vacation? What lol. After 9 months of being here I was so fed up I packed his crap and locked him out. He had someone pick him up and he never lived here again. Over the 7 years we were married he has had collections after him, defaulted on a car loan for a BMW that his cousin made the mistake of co-signing for him because I wouldn’t do it. Got convicted of a drunk driving and eventually even his cousin kicked him out. He refused to pay any bills saying if I paid them before why does he have to pay them now? Really? Years later a good friend of his told me he actually had a child in Jamaica that I knew nothing about. He says before the marriage but the friend says after. Who knows. Eventually I filed for divorce and within 3 months of it being finalized I married my 2nd husband who is also Jamaican. Not everyone is a good person but no way was I gonna let my 1st husband turn me into a person who can’t trust and have love in my life. My 2nd husband and I are now together for almost 5 years and married almost 2 years and I couldn’t be happier. Funniest part is I still hear from the first one periodically even though he knows I’m remarried. Still after 9 years of him being in Canada he still gets himself into trouble...oh well not my problem any longer.
Did you have to sponsor your second husband? If so was it more difficult the second time?