Guys cool down. I don’t want to pick on each ones comment here and reply back to them. Like I already said success is what you perceive it to be. If for you getting a PPR is a lifetime achievement then go ahead and celebrate it, who the hell am I to stop you? I am also from the so called "third world" country that you guys are talking about, I have been through all the *censored word* holes, but I’ve never blamed my country or fellow people for my problems. Every single time I see people blame the system, the government, the politicians, bosses, neighbours, and whatever or whoever else they could. There are millions of people living in the same country who have been through worser situation than you or me, but still love what they do and where they are. I cannot ask you to love the country you are in, but respect what you’ve got or respect what you’ve achieved there.
I get really upset when people say “oh people from those third world asian countries come here with fake papers to get PR / Citizenship”. For all you here who said this - they probably did that because they were in desperate need for help or they probably had a *censored word* life than what you or me have now and wanted to escape out of it at any cost. Who are you to judge????. I hate such people too, but such people exist everywhere not just in third world asian countries, yes even in Canada. My point is Canada is no exception, it is no heaven, it is equally racist, equally filled with such terrible people, system and corrupt politicians.
I understand that getting PR is beginning of a success story for many, well it is just the beginning don't celebrate it at the cost of shaming someone else.
Someone pointed out “why hatred towards people getting PPR” Seriously bro?No one here has hatred towards others getting PR, but the hatred builds when you blame someone else for your rejections / failures. Like a person in CEC / international students blaming FSW because they get PR based on fake papers and vice versa. I will be the first person to be whole heatedly feel happy for someone fulfilling their wishes.
I am awaiting my PPR as well, my job and life depends on me extending my stay here as well. I still come here wait patiently and when I read through the threads wish the other person whose work permit is about to expire or who desperately needs it, better get his PR before me, even if I felt I am more qualified than the other.
I understand every single person in this forum has gone through so many struggles and I cannot talk for everyone unless I was in their shoes, but remember so is everyone else. Each one of us have been through some hardship and you cannot demean their hardwork. I also understand becoming Canadian has been dream for some for several years, and honestly wish you become one.
Again success is what you perceive it to be - you can be happy with whatever you have now, carry this attitude with you. Happiness shouldn’t come from an external source, but from within inside. What if you never make it to Canada for some reason? Will you give up life? no right? you’ll carry on to do something else or find some other way, won’t you? Then isn’t it a trivial thing? What is more important is respecting people and living WITH them.
If you read my comments again, I wasn’t talking about everyone (I said some people). There are genuine cases where people have desperate situations back home and need to get out right away, for them I salute what you are going through and I will be the first person to buy you beer to celebrate your success reaching your new home. But, there are people, who are abusing the system just to get PR (won’t you all agree) and come here finding their way through every loop hole thats available and still blame others for their failures and celebrate their “success” of fooling the system, fooling the genuinely hard working and deserving people who make a commitment to start a new life.
Please guys, can we stop this here? I know I have said more than enough, but that is why these forums are there for. I have been through a lot of trouble as well, I was born to a loving family, worked hard and saved up to make my way to Canada, came here with my loving boyfriend, worked my ass off to stand where I am today, was raped by 3 men (in Canada by White Canadian men) 2 years ago, they called me names that you will not want to hear, they said this will be a lesson for you brown *censored word* to go back to your country and die in misery. I picked up the pieces of my life from whatever was left after the incident with support from my amazing boyfriend, we got married in next 2 months, and have been living an amazing life. To all those who think Canada is an “ideal” nation, I was forced by certain people in power not to share my story with media in this so called ideal country. No country is ideal, it may be better in some aspects, but no country can never be ideal. Ever heard of the saying "grass is greener on the other side of the fence?” Now I am not going to judge this beautiful country based on my single experience, I still find something positive about this country and keep myself from falling into misery, but I feel the same positivity wherever I go irrespective of which country I live, I don't blame the system or govt for my struggles.
Now why did I share my experience here? I want you all to understand - life is not about getting PR, becoming a citizen of some country they are just steps you take to keep yourself happy. It is about how many friends you have made, how many people have you made happy today. Not everyone is going to be Bill Gates or Steve Jobs or Zuckerberg, you cannot frame your success only based on how much money you make or how big you’ve become. But I know I will be one happy woman with great friends and beautiful family. For me that is success. And I honestly wish each one of you gets the ability to separate life’s success from fame, money, position, status and what not. God bless us all. This will probably be my last post in this forum, I feel I am absorbing a lot of negativity here and do not wish to continue.
Good luck to each one of you.
I was just saying it is a good place to be in but not an ideal country 
