lellen
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- Mar 20, 2014
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- June 11 2014
- AOR Received.
- (SA) August 7 2014
- File Transfer...
- August 21 2014
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- May 29 2014
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- December 24 2014
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- January 2 2015
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- 17-02-2015
shyla36 said:I hear you. I was in the same situation as you before. I regretted applying inland as doing nothing for almost a year almost drove me crazy. I didnt know much about inland till i came in this forum. I wish i knew more. But experience tells me, "there's no point in crying over spilled milk" rather i focussed on the very reason why i am here and that is for my hubby. Months after i submitted my app, i told him, i want to go back home and do the outland. He didnt say a thing went to our room and cried. I realized i couldnt bear seeing him so hurt. I knew i will be missing my family so much, my friends, my work. Easier said but in reality, it is harder. I left a very high paying job and also have my masterals degree. I am humbled but all these make our marriage stronger. I had questions, what could have happened if i went back home? How would our lives be as a couple. And so may more... I wouldnt know and i didnt want to risk uncertain answers as well.
So there you go. Its all up to you. I hear you so much. These are the things i do. I pray a lot, i go to the gym, i cook and bake( yes, i never cooked nor baked). I do some gardening. Etc etc. it helps that my family and in laws are very supportive as well. Good luck girl.
omg thank you. exact same situation, and when I told him last night what I was thinking... yes, thank you.