- Aug 18, 2011
- 11
- Category........
- Visa Office......
- Buffalo-->Seattle
- Job Offer........
- Pre-Assessed..
- App. Filed.......
- Oct 28 2011
- File Transfer...
- Jan 9 2012-->Feb 9 2012
- Med's Done....
- Sept 19 2011
- Passport Req..
- March 21 2012
- VISA ISSUED...
- April 21 2012
- LANDED..........
- May 17th 2012
My husband and I met on the internet and were friends for a couple years before we started dating.
We eloped less than a year after we actually started dating. This was because neither of us likes big ceremonies, and to avoid the expense/time/hassle of gathering family from a 4200-mile area, in three countries, some of which doesn't have passports. We had a small ceremony in Canada with a commissioner and two witnesses, which was planned maybe 4 days in advance (we are both really bad at planning.)
Because I do not live in the same state as the rest of my family, they have not met my husband when he has visited me. We're intending that he come down for Christmas and meet all of my family at that point.
We told both families that we are engaged, but have not yet told them that we are married. We'll be announcing that after he's met my family--the idea is that they'll meet him and like him before they get angry at him for eloping with their oldest daughter/granddaughter, instead of hating him before they've met him. Then we'll be visiting his family for New Years, and which point we'll announce our marriage to them.
Questions:
On 5490E, question 11, it asks if he's met any of my close friends or family. I checked 'yes' and listed friends that he's met. Should I also add a note explaining why he hasn't met any family yet?
Question 10: Family knows we're in a relationship but not that we're married. Should I answer yes or no?
Will having an informal ceremony like that, with no family present, act against us? We do have wedding photos, and we're dressed up but not nearly in traditional wedding-y attire.
Thanks!
We eloped less than a year after we actually started dating. This was because neither of us likes big ceremonies, and to avoid the expense/time/hassle of gathering family from a 4200-mile area, in three countries, some of which doesn't have passports. We had a small ceremony in Canada with a commissioner and two witnesses, which was planned maybe 4 days in advance (we are both really bad at planning.)
Because I do not live in the same state as the rest of my family, they have not met my husband when he has visited me. We're intending that he come down for Christmas and meet all of my family at that point.
We told both families that we are engaged, but have not yet told them that we are married. We'll be announcing that after he's met my family--the idea is that they'll meet him and like him before they get angry at him for eloping with their oldest daughter/granddaughter, instead of hating him before they've met him. Then we'll be visiting his family for New Years, and which point we'll announce our marriage to them.
Questions:
On 5490E, question 11, it asks if he's met any of my close friends or family. I checked 'yes' and listed friends that he's met. Should I also add a note explaining why he hasn't met any family yet?
Question 10: Family knows we're in a relationship but not that we're married. Should I answer yes or no?
Will having an informal ceremony like that, with no family present, act against us? We do have wedding photos, and we're dressed up but not nearly in traditional wedding-y attire.
Thanks!