In April 2025, I was charged with impaired driving in Ontario. At that time, I was an international student holding a G2 licence, and my blood alcohol readings were 100 and 110. That single event altered the course of my life in ways I could not have anticipated. It took a significant toll — mentally, financially, and socially. The experience brought overwhelming stress, deep self-reflection, and the harsh reality of how one moment can ripple through every aspect of your life.
As an international student, the stakes were even higher. The fear of how this could impact my immigration status, education, and career aspirations weighed heavily on me. From the very beginning, I understood that how I handled this situation would shape my future, so I approached it with caution and intention.
After carefully speaking with several lawyers and assessing their experience, I retained legal counsel immediately. I took the time to do my research — comparing approaches, asking direct questions, and ensuring I found someone who not only understood the legal process but also appreciated the implications for a non-citizen in Canada. It’s important to note that some individuals may try to use the gravity of your situation to pressure you into making a quick decision. Be meticulous. Be cautious. Trust your instincts. Make sure you feel comfortable with the person you’re hiring, and conduct comprehensive research before signing any retainer. This is your life, your record, and your future — treat each decision with the seriousness it deserves.
Through professional legal representation and a deliberate, patient process, I was ultimately offered a plea to careless driving, which I accepted immediately. With that decision, my matter officially came to an end. The sense of relief and closure that followed was profound. While the journey was costly — both emotionally and financially — it was worth every effort to ensure that I handled it correctly, with integrity and foresight.
To all temporary residents and international students who might find themselves in similar circumstances, my strongest advice is this: hire a reputable lawyer. It will be expensive, but it’s an investment in your future that you will never regret. The right representation can make all the difference in how your case is managed and how it concludes.
Equally important, take care of your mental and physical health while navigating this process. The stress can be consuming, so do what you can to stay active, maintain your routines, and protect your peace of mind. Exercise, engage with supportive people, and focus on small, positive steps each day.
Lastly, if you are going through this and need someone to speak to — please don’t hesitate to reach out. I will continue to be here to support others who are facing similar challenges, offering guidance and encouragement where I can. This experience, though difficult, has reinforced my belief in resilience, accountability, and second chances.
Your mistake does not define your destiny. What defines you is the courage to face it, learn from it, and move forward stronger than before.