CHC, Islamabad Spouse Sponsorship Timeline 2009 -2010

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any idea jab file decision making officer k pass jati hai to usk kitnay arsay baad ppr aati hai bcz mery file decision maing officer k pass hai aur mera remedical bhe aug main expire horaha hai aur mera march 2010 ka case hai , any idea , personal experience, old members plz

 

[khanb5]

NEWS FROM MY SIDE....My WIFE received call from CHC-I today and they guy asked her for her and mine DOB and then told her that they are sending her medical in 2-3 weeks and also told her that they as per our recent proof sent to them it mention there that our ruksati is expected on Nov 9th they confirm that again with my wife and then in last they informed her that they will be finalizing everything once they received pics from ruksati.

Now I don't know if its a positive sigh or not. May be they were just doing security check to see if its really my wife who uses that number that I have provided to them. I am feeling good about this now lets see Allah sab behtar karega...

 

[goppy1]

I agree wid u bro on all the points except for the last Point of having a baby...sorry to say bro whoever has to come he/she has to come bt if u start planing tht we shud get settled first n then we" ll decide of having a baby then bro Allah has more planning then u..n u cannot create hurdles in Allah's planning..n to tell u the truth wen u were born ur father never planned anything n wen u came u brought ur own Rizk..coz in Quran it's clearly written tht baby comes with his own food so it has nothing to do with ur settlement of raising him..I've seen ppl who first planned to get settled n then wen they thgt they r ready to raise a child then Allah didn't wanted it tht way..n then the only thng was praying hard for babies..just ask those ppl who don't have babies n ull knw hw it feels.n I also agree with COOL HEADED as he said raise babies ASAP it makes the couple stay together..I hope u understood wat I tried to explain..
I guess other forum members will also agree to it..
N matches are made in heaven so there's no point of finding a perfect match in Canada or pakistan..if ur match is in Canada ull find it n if it's in Pakistan then no matter hw hard u try finding there ull end up in Pakistan.so it's all planned n written in ur destiny..to believe this uve to have full faith in Allah n thts wt we all lack..Our EMAN is nt upto the standard..
Allah bless u bro.. N all prayers for ur happy life..

it an endless debate based on ppl personal experiences and surrrounding observations
dats why it varies from person to person ..it could either bad or good so I 100% agree with hunsani bro just go for it and have faith on Allah ,strengthen ur Eman
cousin marraiegae is not prefered but shuker hy its not forbidden
why is it not prefered there is big Daleel behind it in shariah
mine is cousin marriage ..we fight every time lol ..but Alhamdulillah we are veryyyyyyyyyy happy
cool tips from cool bro

 

[R.Mujgani]

NEWS FROM MY SIDE....My WIFE received call from CHC-I today and they guy asked her for her and mine DOB and then told her that they are sending her medical in 2-3 weeks and also told her that they as per our recent proof sent to them it mention there that our ruksati is expected on Nov 9th they confirm that again with my wife and then in last they informed her that they will be finalizing everything once they received pics from ruksati.

Now I don't know if its a positive sigh or not. May be they were just doing security check to see if its really my wife who uses that number that I have provided to them. I am feeling good about this now lets see Allah sab behtar karega...

ma husband also got a call last week n they said that his background check is being conducted, and two letters are being send out... n so far its been a week n half n still no letter n also they asked him few questions regarding his identity n case.... so im guessing they call everyone once they start doing back ground check to see if its the right person...

i hope this is a good sign for both u and me
AMEEN

 

[R.Mujgani]

it an endless debate based on ppl personal experiences and surrrounding observations
dats why it varies from person to person ..it could either bad or good so I 100% agree with hunsani bro just go for it and have faith on Allah ,strengthen ur Eman
cousin marraiegae is not prefered but shuker hy its not forbidden
why is it not prefered there is big Daleel behind it in shariah
mine is cousin marriage ..we fight every time lol ..but Alhamdulillah we are veryyyyyyyyyy happy
cool tips from cool bro

Mine is a cousin marriage too, the only problem wit family marriage is that
EVERYONE GETS INVOLVED even if u dont want it, but word gets around n u kno wat happens after that lmao

lmao ma hubby n i fight most of the times to which is healthy for couples to fight, thats part of love.... n u have to deal wit it always
but make sure u dont expect too much, then the relationship goes off n nothing special will be left between couple...

MARRY someone YOUR OWN AGE average not someone 10 years younger then u or 5 years older then you,
if ur wife is bout 3-5 years younger thats okay n marrying someone older is no fun as u might be too immature for her lol... toba....
but seriously marry someone ur own age or close... n always RESPECT one another, dont make fun of each other then feelings will be hurt

Jus have Faith in Allah swt and He will give you the right person soon....

 

[goppy1]

Mine is a cousin marriage too, the only problem wit family marriage is that
EVERYONE GETS INVOLVED even if u dont want it, but word gets around n u kno wat happens after that lmao

lmao ma hubby n i fight most of the times to which is healthy for couples to fight, thats part of love.... n u have to deal wit it always
but make sure u dont expect too much, then the relationship goes off n nothing special will be left between couple...

MARRY someone YOUR OWN AGE average not someone 10 years younger then u or 5 years older then you,
if ur wife is bout 3-5 years younger thats okay n marrying someone older is no fun as u might be too immature for her lol... toba....
but seriously marry someone ur own age or close... n always RESPECT one another, dont make fun of each other then feelings will be hurt

Jus have Faith in Allah swt and He will give you the right person soon....

even if u r married out of family sis kind of society we have in pakistan ..rest of the family wud get involve its inevitable ,from both sides ..how can we stay away from them specially when it comes to arrange marriage ..sometimes its good but sometimes it makes things more worse for the couples,if inlwas r not understanding
just pray that Allah choose right person for everyone ..be Honest ,sincere ,Loving and above allllll beeeeeeeeeee LOYAL to ur spouse

 

[hunsani1]

NEWS FROM MY SIDE....My WIFE received call from CHC-I today and they guy asked her for her and mine DOB and then told her that they are sending her medical in 2-3 weeks and also told her that they as per our recent proof sent to them it mention there that our ruksati is expected on Nov 9th they confirm that again with my wife and then in last they informed her that they will be finalizing everything once they received pics from ruksati.

Now I don't know if its a positive sigh or not. May be they were just doing security check to see if its really my wife who uses that number that I have provided to them. I am feeling good about this now lets see Allah sab behtar karega...

Dear Khan bro...
This is a gud as well as bad sign tht they will nt issue ppr unless u dunt send them the ruksati pics..it's nt related to security checks or anything..they usually call those who are Nikah only case n want to confrm tht are they really going for the rukhsati or nt..I got a call in jan n mine was Nikah only case wen we applied bt aftr tht we did rukhsati bt they didn't knew so they called n confrmd abt rukhsati n I told them then they asked for ruksati n post wedding pics..so do ur ruksati if u want to final ur case before nov..otherwise they won't issue ppr for sure..
Gud luck..

 

[hunsani1]

even if u r married out of family sis kind of society we have in pakistan ..rest of the family wud get involve its inevitable ,from both sides ..how can u stay away from them specially when it comes to arrange marriage ..sometimes its good but sometimes it makes things more worse for the couples,if inlwas r not understanding
just pray that Allah choose right person for u ..be Honest ,sincere ,Loving and above allllll beeeeeeeeeee LOYAL to ur spouse

Totally agreed Goppy sis...it all depends on family n it varies frm society to society...it shud be the coupple who shud be more understanding with each other n shudnt let anyone come in between..coz the more it is open the more mouths come in between n specially for grlz living with their inlaws n ur also a grl so u knw more than me.. bt I just pray for u sisterz out there tht where ever u live n with whom ever u live,,,ur life is full of happiness n love... All prayers for all sisters specially 2010 sisters... n also 2011 sisters who come on our forum..I don't knw the names thts why I'm not mentioning...
Do remember me in ur prayers..

 

[lonly widout hubby]

Questions regarding considering a life partner......

What are the most important things to consider when choosing a life partner from back home??

I know, its off of the topic in this forum, but since you guys are sponsoring or being sponsored, it's the best place to know more about choosing a life partner than anywhere else

BTW I am sponorsing family members, but intend to take a step for my self tooo ....

FINALL CONCULISON ISS

IS A BIG GAMBLEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

JUST PRAY TO ALLAH EVERYDAY DAT U GET D BEST LIFE PARTNER , BOTH LOVE N RESPECT EACH OTHERRRRRRRRR................

 

[Khilafah5]

add me ppr june 04 2012 and medical

sis u are remed + ppr

this list is if u get remed seperate and ppr seprate

 

[Khilafah5]

ma husband also got a call last week n they said that his background check is being conducted, and two letters are being send out... n so far its been a week n half n still no letter n also they asked him few questions regarding his identity n case.... so im guessing they call everyone once they start doing back ground check to see if its the right person...

i hope this is a good sign for both u and me
AMEEN

for u see its most likely remed +ppr

 

[Wife_Need_Husband Badly]

Hi everyone how are you guyz allllllllllllll, i am fine and came after very long time i am in canada and i came here on march 18th 2012 i could not be online since long i was vey busy in stuff , well hope you guyz all are ok and having ppr and visas, and cursuing on CHC-I ,, well i will try be online sometime if i have chance, well where is my enemy Sawera hope shes doing good well tc all see ya soon........

 

[emanzaib]

any good news today???

 

[Cool_Heaqded]

any good news today???

The silence is deafening.. :-X :-X

 

[sabii]

Based on my personal experience and observation, Sab say bahtar life partner woo hay joo ya to ap k realtives may say hoo ya jannay walay jinhain ap 10-15 saal say jantay hoon. Jannay waloon may shadi karnay ka faida ap larki or us kay ghar waloon koo pahlay say jantay hain.

Buhar sari pareeshanion say bach jata hay admi agar loog dakhay bhalay hoon too....Dont think only about the life partner think that you are going to attach a family....

sometimes strangers are better than known ppl... i have seen some examples