First i want to apologize for everyone, this is just complaining how hard is to wait pr with your spouse and doing...nothing. although, i dont know who else could understand me now better than you. So im here to share this.
I know we all are frustrated within situations we have to go thru. But i think I will be insane soon. Seriously.
Im staying with my hubby while we apply pr for me(outland). I came like a year ago, and we didint plan anything permanent back then, but we fell in love etc.. :-* and now we are married. So my savings are pretty much gone by now.
I cant work, mu hubby is working as much as he can to support both of us. And many times per week we have fight about money.
Im not the type of person who has use to been supported. i have lived alone since i was 16, always work and payed everything by myself. So my self esteem is lowest now, i cant support myself or help our situation financially. It feels terrible just stay at home, i dont know how some people can do it. I feel so useless. Even though i keep our home clean and make meals etc... I have talk about this with my hubby, but he says its not my fault, and there is nothing we can do...
My visa extension is in process, but i dont know. should i just fly back to home country, try to work and save as much as i can and come back when i hear something from visa office. i really dont want(and hubby dont even want to talk about this), but i dont know what to do.
i have try to volunteer, but nobody takes me cause i dont have any kind of insurance(my travel insurance is gone, cause i have been away from my home country over a year) and my hubby just changed job, so he doesnt have medical/health coverage yet.
and what volunteering would help...nothing with the money anyway...
Thank you that i had chance to share this
I know we all are frustrated within situations we have to go thru. But i think I will be insane soon. Seriously.
Im staying with my hubby while we apply pr for me(outland). I came like a year ago, and we didint plan anything permanent back then, but we fell in love etc.. :-* and now we are married. So my savings are pretty much gone by now.
I cant work, mu hubby is working as much as he can to support both of us. And many times per week we have fight about money.
Im not the type of person who has use to been supported. i have lived alone since i was 16, always work and payed everything by myself. So my self esteem is lowest now, i cant support myself or help our situation financially. It feels terrible just stay at home, i dont know how some people can do it. I feel so useless. Even though i keep our home clean and make meals etc... I have talk about this with my hubby, but he says its not my fault, and there is nothing we can do...
My visa extension is in process, but i dont know. should i just fly back to home country, try to work and save as much as i can and come back when i hear something from visa office. i really dont want(and hubby dont even want to talk about this), but i dont know what to do.
i have try to volunteer, but nobody takes me cause i dont have any kind of insurance(my travel insurance is gone, cause i have been away from my home country over a year) and my hubby just changed job, so he doesnt have medical/health coverage yet.
and what volunteering would help...nothing with the money anyway...
Thank you that i had chance to share this