PR

[rahiljaved]

No point

 

[scylla]

I am currently living in Mississauga, Canada. I was based in Poland working there in Europe for last 5 years and visited Canada last year in 2017 to visit my brother and his family. In 2018 I visited again and they introduce me to a family through a family friend where they were looking for a soul mate for a girl in their family. So I met her and we like each other and they take it to the next level and got engaged. After engagement I find out that the girl has some issues like she is very stubborn, she doesn't listen to anyone, she is very rude and uncooperative and looks like she has some mental health issues. So I raise the concern to their family and said that I cant get married to her but they said no it's not like that she is very nice and even my family said that you are overreacting so I got married thinking that they might be right and things will get settled later. Her parents urge us to get married right away, I told them that I have to go back to Poland to close everything they said no resign from here why you are going we will put your PR application here. I left my job in Poland, left my European residency, moved all my money to Canada and put my application for Permanent Residence. Later the girl starts reacting weirdly letting me spend all the money, I thought maybe its because she is now my wife and she wants me to spend. Later on, she starts yelling at me for small little things, keeping me awake all night to talk to her otherwise she said I am leaving you. She starts blackmailing me that if you don't do this I will cancel your PR application and you will be nowhere. I always calmly and quietly handle the situation but now she is getting violent at me, throwing stuff, a lot of time I told her to go for the doctor because it looks like she doesn't look stable mentally but she never listens. Now I am at the point of nowhere, she drags me to the point where I don't have any money left, when I talk to her she reacts violently and threw stuff at me and that scares me because she talks aggressively and loudly, I talk to her parents but obviously her parents supporting her saying that it is your fault you don't pamper her properly. I don't have my work permit yet and she said I am going to cancel everything and you will career and future will be finish. In fact, she cheated me left me at the point of nowhere. I don't know what to do because if she cancels everything everyone supports her even if she lies, women supporting laws in Canada giving them the freedom to do anything and always a man will be guilty even if he is innocent.

Regardless of whether the sponsor is a man or woman - they have the right to cancel a sponsorship application.

Based on the information you have provided above, I would recommend that you find a way to qualify for permanent residency on your own through an economic stream like Express Entry. Your relationship with your wife isn't healthy and it sounds like there's a very high chance your marriage will break down before you have PR. Keep in mind that if you stay in a relationship or marry someone for the purpose of obtaining PR, that's regarded as fraud and a crime.

Again, would recommend that you seek a way to get PR on your own. That's the best option.

 

[scylla]

EDIT: I would also say that I think your sponsorship application is going to get looked at pretty closely given you met in 2018, got engaged and got married. That's very very fast and will make IRCC concerned this is a marriage of convenience.

 

[vensak]

Divorce her, if you think it is not worth it. there is more than one way to stay here and you can do it independently (for example student visa and later on PR application with Express entry).
Just be ready to have proofs, that a genuine relationship was there at the start. And later on as you knew her more, you started to have doubts (that is in case she would try to accuse you of marriage of convenience).

 

[canuck78]

Divorce her. You could always go back to Poland and start over. This will continue to get worse. Even if immigration wasn't involved it sounds like an abusive disfunction relationship. You are not limited to Poland if you were looking to move to another country. You can live and work in many other countries.

 

[Rob_TO]

I am currently living in Mississauga, Canada. I was based in Poland working there in Europe for last 5 years and visited Canada last year in 2017 to visit my brother and his family. In 2018 I visited again and they introduce me to a family through a family friend where they were looking for a soul mate for a girl in their family. So I met her and we like each other and they take it to the next level and got engaged. After engagement I find out that the girl has some issues like she is very stubborn, she doesn't listen to anyone, she is very rude and uncooperative and looks like she has some mental health issues. So I raise the concern to their family and said that I cant get married to her but they said no it's not like that she is very nice and even my family said that you are overreacting so I got married thinking that they might be right and things will get settled later. Her parents urge us to get married right away, I told them that I have to go back to Poland to close everything they said no resign from here why you are going we will put your PR application here. I left my job in Poland, left my European residency, moved all my money to Canada and put my application for Permanent Residence. Later the girl starts reacting weirdly letting me spend all the money, I thought maybe its because she is now my wife and she wants me to spend. Later on, she starts yelling at me for small little things, keeping me awake all night to talk to her otherwise she said I am leaving you. She starts blackmailing me that if you don't do this I will cancel your PR application and you will be nowhere. I always calmly and quietly handle the situation but now she is getting violent at me, throwing stuff, a lot of time I told her to go for the doctor because it looks like she doesn't look stable mentally but she never listens. Now I am at the point of nowhere, she drags me to the point where I don't have any money left, when I talk to her she reacts violently and threw stuff at me and that scares me because she talks aggressively and loudly, I talk to her parents but obviously her parents supporting her saying that it is your fault you don't pamper her properly. I don't have my work permit yet and she said I am going to cancel everything and you will career and future will be finish. In fact, she cheated me left me at the point of nowhere. I don't know what to do because if she cancels everything everyone supports her even if she lies, women supporting laws in Canada giving them the freedom to do anything and always a man will be guilty even if he is innocent.

So you met her, got married, and submitted your PR app all within the first 4-5 months of 2018??

If this is the case and you barely knew her before marrying her, there's a very good chance your PR app would have been rejected anyways.

As mentioned, as the sponsor she has every right to cancel your PR app, for whatever reason she wants. If your spouse is not willing to sponsor you for PR, then you won't get PR status through them.

 

[scylla]

That is the problem, just like your reply, everybody thinks the only the person who married here is just because of PR but its other way around, that phsyco and mentally retarded has done a fraud, took all the money, left me a place of nowhere, and I have to find other ways to stay in the country. I don't have the job in Poland now because initially, she said that I can not trust you if you don't leave your job there. Now you are here why you keeping your job so I resign. My point has she cheated me, she did a fraud not me but Canadian laws are not for innocent if it comes to women.

Why did you marry her in that case? The time between you meeting, getting engaged and then getting married was extremely short. You yourself say you didn't want to get married but went through with it anyway. Why did you go through with the marriage? Why so quickly? How has she committed fraud exactly? Did you or your family give her money in exchange for getting married and obtaining PR? Nothing in your original post indicates you have ever had a real relationship that would naturally lead to marriage.

It's pretty clear you married her to get PR (marriage of convenience) through a family arrangement and now things aren't working out. Don't think you're going to get much sympathy here on this forum from all of us here in genuine relationships.

Again, nothing to do with the fact she is a woman. This clearly wasn't about being in a relationship with someone you loved. It was all about getting PR. And now it's not working out for you.

Sorry dude. Zero sympathy. You know what they say about karma...