Calm down girl...I think this is because when I was so down with what embassy wrote to me that I started singling you out as someone I can talk to here instead of opening it up to everyone.. I had couple of inquiries here in the past that nobody even dared to answer so I either asked my concern in private to some good natured posters and shared in my language to cris what I felt..I could have done it in private the sharing but I know there are lots of bisaya here who wants to know what's going on too.. we know it is rude to speak your own language when you are surrounded by people who don't speak the language but that is speaking.. here in writing I seldom air my answers in bisaya nor asked the posters without particular in my dialect..if you address a certain poster a question which will benefit some who understand then for me it is considered an exemption.. In every rule there is always an exemption..we don't have to quarrel here for the sake of quarreling...I know cris is of stress lately..I too is under stress that I don't know anymore what to do if I can't get my daughter and grandson this year..but the positivity of some here made me strong, the once in a while bantering of little jokes ease the tension..a fellow bisaya wants to ruin that fun by citing ill words like no "breeding".. etc.. hey, how do we know you have it? You certainly behave as though you do not.crisetphil said:
Thanks.
