I cannot believe you lost your appeal! I am at lost for the right words! My heart squeezed at the news. What happened exactly? My case is similar to yours... I met my husband in person for the first time in July 2010, then I returned in December 2010 to get married. And you don't have a large age gap like us, right?
What did your lawyer tell you as for the next step? You can appeal in a higher court, you knew that? But it is one year of more waiting
My heart goes out to you. I know you must be both of you in tremendous pain. The other option would be for your wife to live with you in Morocco. We even considered that when the Minister's counsel refused us at the end of the hearing. May Allah give you the so needed strength!