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ELOH

Star Member
Aug 16, 2011
116
1
Category........
Visa Office......
buffalo/Ottawa
Job Offer........
Pre-Assessed..
App. Filed.......
09-09-2011
Doc's Request.
none
AOR Received.
03/12/2012
File Transfer...
07/07/12 but no VO as of 08/22/12
Med's Done....
08/25/2011
Interview........
waived
Passport Req..
01/28/2013
four years later. almost two of waiting on CIC. And two weeks before we were approved, my husband called it quits.

2000 miles and 18 months was just too much.

thank you everyone for your well wishes.
 

Mrembo

Hero Member
Apr 17, 2012
328
7
Manitoba
Category........
Visa Office......
Vegreville
Job Offer........
Pre-Assessed..
App. Filed.......
Nov 16th 2012
Doc's Request.
Jan 9th 2012
AOR Received.
Jan 9th 2012
Med's Request
Not yet
Med's Done....
2010
Interview........
Not yet
Passport Req..
Not yet
VISA ISSUED...
Not yet
LANDED..........
Can't wait
ELOH said:
four years later. almost two of waiting on CIC. And two weeks before we were approved, my husband called it quits.

2000 miles and 18 months was just too much.

thank you everyone for your well wishes.
Am so sorry you are going through this!-God know's its not an easy road to travel and he also knows why things happen the way they do!-Big hugs
 

CanadianJeepGuy

Champion Member
Jun 24, 2012
2,666
99
Winnipeg, Manitoba
Category........
Visa Office......
Manila
NOC Code......
N/A
Job Offer........
Pre-Assessed..
App. Filed.......
10-05-2012; "In Process" 26-04-2013
Doc's Request.
docs and pics resent 04-09-2012
AOR Received.
16-08-2012 (Unofficial. Received email missing docs)
File Transfer...
09-10-2012
Med's Request
April 14th 2013
Med's Done....
Dec 2011; re-med May 06 2013
Interview........
Waived
Passport Req..
May 06 2013
VISA ISSUED...
May 27 2013
LANDED..........
June 15th 2013
Sad news. I can understand the stress but to quit when the approval has finally come....a waste.
 

Nevaeha

Champion Member
Aug 18, 2012
2,639
76
Category........
Visa Office......
Kingston
Job Offer........
Pre-Assessed..
App. Filed.......
March 12, 2012
Doc's Request.
Police certificate re-do: Feb 25, 2013
AOR Received.
June 6, 2012
Med's Done....
January 9, 2012 Medical extension: Feb 25, 2013
Passport Req..
December 6, 2013
VISA ISSUED...
December 12, 2013
LANDED..........
December 25, 2013
ELOH, this is not an easy process. All the best to the both of you. :'(
 

VanSquirrel

Star Member
Feb 15, 2013
66
3
Category........
Visa Office......
Vegreville
Job Offer........
Pre-Assessed..
AOR Received.
26-01-2012
IELTS Request
AIP: 04-02-2013
Interview........
Waived
VISA ISSUED...
17-04-2013
I'm so sorry to hear that, Eloh. I guess I can understand how this process can strain a relationship that didn't yet have a chance to mature by a shared life together. Four years of a relationship with 2 of that being apart doesn't make for a very strong foundation, especially when you've had so many bad things happen during that time to put both of you under further stress. On top of that, the difference between your situation compared to others is that you have been "so close to the end" for so long, which just makes it that much more stressful.

Are you going to land at least? After all this suffering, why not, right? Or does your husband have to be there with you to sign documents?
 

gsize

Hero Member
May 2, 2009
958
48
Category........
Job Offer........
Pre-Assessed..
App. Filed.......
2009....denied Feb 2010.....appeal allowed (August 2012)..waiting for processing
Doc's Request.
04/04/2013
File Transfer...
30/01/2013
Med's Done....
04/2013 (second time)
Passport Req..
21/02, 2014
VISA ISSUED...
18/03/2014
LANDED..........
05/04/2014
ELOH said:
four years later. almost two of waiting on CIC. And two weeks before we were approved, my husband called it quits.

2000 miles and 18 months was just too much.

thank you everyone for your well wishes.
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im speechless ! I worry about this issue. Its so hard being away from those you love !

All the best !
 

brightredscream

Hero Member
Sep 1, 2010
425
7
124
Stoney Creek, Ontario
Category........
Visa Office......
Ottawa
Job Offer........
Pre-Assessed..
App. Filed.......
24-12-2012
AOR Received.
17-01-2013
File Transfer...
17-01-2013
Med's Done....
29-11-2012
Interview........
Not required
Passport Req..
21-06-2013
VISA ISSUED...
17-07-2013
That's so not right, and I am really sorry :(
 

Darrppy78

Star Member
Jan 4, 2013
81
3
Category........
Visa Office......
Nairobi
Job Offer........
Pre-Assessed..
App. Filed.......
5-11-2012
AOR Received.
8-11-2012
File Transfer...
14-01-13
Med's Done....
28-08-2012
Interview........
Waived
Passport Req..
31-01-2013
VISA ISSUED...
16-04-2013
LANDED..........
07-05-2013
ELOH said:
four years later. almost two of waiting on CIC. And two weeks before we were approved, my husband called it quits.

2000 miles and 18 months was just too much.

thank you everyone for your well wishes.
Aawwww ELOH, how sad. I wish we could all give you hugs and listen to you vent (if you express pain this way). It must be terribly hard. I would love to come up with some strong encouraging words to sooth but I don't think anything I say will be good enough. You may not want to hear this right now but if he gave up on you and what you had right now then maybe he would have done so in the future as well. It may be four years of your life but it is better that if it would have been 14years and with kids in the mix. Take heart. Cry it out and know that God is making way for your perfect companion (not a perfect person but a perfect companion for you).

I wonder whether CIC will now allow you to at least start a life in Canada. Maybe as a skilled worker? They had better after what they have done. No matter what happens I wish you the very best. I will say a prayer for you.

I wish the rest of us well also!!! This distance thing ...............................
 
M

mikeymyke

Guest
How does your application take so long? This was an American VO, they normally can finish a good application within a year tops. A four year relationship should be a piece of cake for the CIC
 

gsize

Hero Member
May 2, 2009
958
48
Category........
Job Offer........
Pre-Assessed..
App. Filed.......
2009....denied Feb 2010.....appeal allowed (August 2012)..waiting for processing
Doc's Request.
04/04/2013
File Transfer...
30/01/2013
Med's Done....
04/2013 (second time)
Passport Req..
21/02, 2014
VISA ISSUED...
18/03/2014
LANDED..........
05/04/2014
they lost her file.....it happens !