VISA Refused!!!

[lovi2782]

I reviewed everyone's comment and I am really thankful to everyone who has guided me in these tough times. After many discussions with the family and friends I have come to a conclusion.

I and my family will land in Canada. I will stay there for a month and then I will come back with my kid. My husband will look for job and settles down. After 6 months he will sponsor his mother for single entry first and if approved then we will go for parent super visa after we have maintained good travel history.

Besided this CIC might open applications for PR for parents and grandparents in the coming months. We can go for that as well. And, if nothing materializes then we will leave canada forever and come back to India.

I need everyone's opinion in this strategy. How much this strategy is going to succeed and whether I am right at this?

 

[lovi2782]

Experts opinion awaited.

 

[MASunny]

This is becoming too personal matter; you (or your son) can't live without your mother-in-law. If this is the case then (I am sorry) why would you had applied for PR? I feel very sorry for writing my harsh comments but I feel that truth prevails!

You write "I and my family will land in Canada. I will stay there for a month and then I will come back with my kid. My husband will look for job and settles down. After 6 months he will sponsor his mother for single entry first and if approved then we will go for parent super visa after we have maintained good travel history."

This gives feeling that your ties with Canada is totally dependent upon your mo-in-law's visa. Be careful, if you reveal that or by any chance VO/CIC might come to know then you would loose your PR!

You write " And, if nothing materializes then we will leave canada forever and come back to India."

This gives feeling that you had wasted one set of Canadian PR visas for a very strange reason!!!!!


If you need factual opinion, I'd say 'its your life, you live it without depending upon any one.'

I reviewed everyone's comment and I am really thankful to everyone who has guided me in these tough times. After many discussions with the family and friends I have come to a conclusion.

I and my family will land in Canada. I will stay there for a month and then I will come back with my kid. My husband will look for job and settles down. After 6 months he will sponsor his mother for single entry first and if approved then we will go for parent super visa after we have maintained good travel history.

Besided this CIC might open applications for PR for parents and grandparents in the coming months. We can go for that as well. And, if nothing materializes then we will leave canada forever and come back to India.

I need everyone's opinion in this strategy. How much this strategy is going to succeed and whether I am right at this?

 

[lovi2782]

This gives feeling that you had wasted one set of Canadian PR visas for a very strange reason!!!!!

This isn't about wasting something. It's about sacrificing and affection with a person. I am not sure if everyone on this earth understand this but thousand PR aren't worth if I lose someone who is important just by existence.
I will definitely give a try but if Canada can't except my mother-in-law then nothing in Canada is fascinating for me. Lets see what future has hold for us.

 

[samar123]

This isn't about wasting something. It's about sacrificing and affection with a person. I am not sure if everyone on this earth understand this but thousand PR aren't worth if I lose someone who is important just by existence.
I will definitely give a try but if Canada can't except my mother-in-law then nothing in Canada is fascinating for me. Lets see what future has hold for us.

I can Understand your feelings Lovi2782. I think its the best option you mentioned above. May Gob bless you and grant whatever your wish is and make all your paths smooth as you are doing it for good reason. Amen

 

[MASunny]

My apologies for being hard but facts remain facts.

Madam, you are mixing facts with relationship; when you had applied for PR you knew that mo-in-law cant be added in your journey. You tried to add her by getting her visit visa but there's no guarantee for such visas.

Do you know that Super visa takes how long to get processed - sometimes more than 18 months or so, largest que is FAM, even before MI1 applicants!

This means that you have to live in Canada, without your mo-in-law, for 18 mo while your mo-in-law visa is processed. So be realistic, wishes or duas wouldn't work. These good words are just to please you artificially here on this forum whereas visit visa facts are too harsh!

Plan your journey for your immediate family only, you are about to complete your PR process, don't disregard it for a refusal of one visit visa. Accept it as God's wish and move on to your life without your mo-in-law!

This isn't about wasting something. It's about sacrificing and affection with a person. I am not sure if everyone on this earth understand this but thousand PR aren't worth if I lose someone who is important just by existence.
I will definitely give a try but if Canada can't except my mother-in-law then nothing in Canada is fascinating for me. Lets see what future has hold for us.

 

[lovi2782]

I can Understand your feelings Lovi2782. I think its the best option you mentioned above. May Gob bless you and grant whatever your wish is and make all your paths smooth as you are doing it for good reason. Amen

Thanks a lot for your wishes samar. Amen.

 

[Pippin]

My dear Dad died last week. Your posting touched a tender spot. I can fully understand that love of family trumps PR any day. I encourage you to complete your landing and make application for TRVs when you are settled and meet the requirements. Read all the posts you can about refusals so you can make your application a strong one. CIC works on rules not compassion it seems, so stick to the facts and keep emotions at bay. Prove that your mother-in-law has strong ties and clearly lay out that she would do nothing to jeopardize her visa for future visits. Wish you good luck.

 

[Patientman]

Nice story! you can make a movie!

 

[lovi2782]

My dear Dad died last week. Your posting touched a tender spot. I can fully understand that love of family trumps PR any day. I encourage you to complete your landing and make application for TRVs when you are settled and meet the requirements. Read all the posts you can about refusals so you can make your application a strong one. CIC works on rules not compassion it seems, so stick to the facts and keep emotions at bay. Prove that your mother-in-law has strong ties and clearly lay out that she would do nothing to jeopardize her visa for future visits. Wish you good luck.

I am so sorry to hear that. But thanks for your wishes. This is really encouraging.

 

[steaky]

I reviewed everyone's comment and I am really thankful to everyone who has guided me in these tough times. After many discussions with the family and friends I have come to a conclusion.

I and my family will land in Canada. I will stay there for a month and then I will come back with my kid. My husband will look for job and settles down. After 6 months he will sponsor his mother for single entry first and if approved then we will go for parent super visa after we have maintained good travel history.

Besided this CIC might open applications for PR for parents and grandparents in the coming months. We can go for that as well. And, if nothing materializes then we will leave canada forever and come back to India.

I need everyone's opinion in this strategy. How much this strategy is going to succeed and whether I am right at this?

There's nothing wrong with this plan as long as the PR visa is still valid. But you might need a plan B or C if the grandmother visitor visa is still not approved - such as you making regular visits to home country or the entire family get US visa and meet in the states.

 

[lovi2782]

There's nothing wrong with this plan as long as the PR visa is still valid. But you might need a plan B or C if the grandmother visitor visa is still not approved - such as you making regular visits to home country or the entire family get US visa and meet in the states.

Is it not difficult to get visitor visa of US despite we don't know anyone there? If it is easier to get then your suggestion is really executable. I appreciate that.

 

[Johnny31]

good luck to u!

 

[steaky]

Is it not difficult to get visitor visa of US despite we don't know anyone there? If it is easier to get then your suggestion is really executable. I appreciate that.

It's easier for the kid especially if the grandmother cannot get the canadian visa and the kid can see the grandmother more quickly in the US after the landing.

 

[lovi2782]

It's easier for the kid especially if the grandmother cannot get the canadian visa and the kid can see the grandmother more quickly in the US after the landing.

Will my mother-in-law get US visa easily depite of no know relative or sponsor there?