Yes, my priority is to have all my family living all together; but the situation is forcing me to accept minimal damage which is to have my eldest son be apart from us and hope that with his specialization he may be granted a citizenship ant at least get to visit us in the future.
You're stating that asylum is granted when a person is having no option; it's true that I'm currently in the UAE but again if my contract is terminated, which may happen any moment, I will be sent back to Syria and it did happen so many times. If you where in my situation would you wait until this happen or try to seek options.