I`ve found this forum to be not so pleasant after all. A lot of people seem to come in here just so they can read posts and then respond with negative absolutes, or name calling in order to upset the OP.
I have seen and experienced, however, a few really compassionate people who have tried to offer advice , consolation, or even a dose of reality ( which isn`t bad if it`s given with tact and kindness-which a lot of people completely lack. )
For those kind people, I am very thankful.
I`m leaving this forum, though, after feeling like it upsets me more than helps me, in general.
Being how humans are inclined to be jerks so often to make themselves feel better, I would bet money there will be ugly remarks in response to my post. I`ll tell you right now, you are wasting your time. I won`t be reading them.
Thank you to those who posted kind and tactful advice, but this process is difficult enough without having things people say in here upset me as well.
Good luck to all of you.
Signing off.
Soleil2020
I have seen and experienced, however, a few really compassionate people who have tried to offer advice , consolation, or even a dose of reality ( which isn`t bad if it`s given with tact and kindness-which a lot of people completely lack. )
For those kind people, I am very thankful.
I`m leaving this forum, though, after feeling like it upsets me more than helps me, in general.
Being how humans are inclined to be jerks so often to make themselves feel better, I would bet money there will be ugly remarks in response to my post. I`ll tell you right now, you are wasting your time. I won`t be reading them.
Thank you to those who posted kind and tactful advice, but this process is difficult enough without having things people say in here upset me as well.
Good luck to all of you.
Signing off.
Soleil2020
