I need to know what to do because everyone's opinion are against each other .and nobody has any security about their words. So 90 days from the expiry of the refusal notice.
So restoration just for some ppl who are able to do it due to in their letter this is mentioned, or everyone even tho the letter doesn't say anything and says you need to leave right away .I Didi t leave at that moment bc my mom was arriving to visit me, then k made an appointment with a Canadian lawyer from women working community center and she said I can do a restoration.and then when I was about to do it, another told me I am not able to do it, bc I was as a visitor record and they didn't give the chance to so it in the letter
Well, after 89 days of waffling without taking a decision, you are now definitely going to be living without legal status in Canada from tomorrow, even if you were arguably in status before (which you weren't but whatever).
This will mean no healthcare, no ability to get a good paying job, the constant fear of being caught, never being able to leave the country, and so on and so forth.
If you are OK with all that, then go ahead and live without status. I can understand someone doing that when the alternative is returning home to a country where you may be killed, or something equally serious. There are people who would rather live in fear of getting caught in Canada (where you know you will be treated humanely by the authorities) than go back home and be shot.
If, however, you are a highly educated person ( a dentist), and you have the ability to make a good life for yourself in your home country, and potentially immigrate to Canada in a year or three.. you should consider doing that.
What is your plan to live here? How will you fend for yourself? Are you independently wealthy?
If you're about to get married to a Canadian citizen (your boyfriend is a citizen?), then you do have options open to you. If the marriage is genuine, and you don't just get married to get status, you may be able to get sponsored and get PR. However, you will really have to prove that the marriage is real and not just a marriage of convenience.
I don't know what you've been doing for 3 months, and I'm not judging you - but you really should take this seriously and make a decision one way or the other.