Thanks for your wishes. And I hope you do too.
I agree that they started the name calling, which is why I asked them to stop. But Myrah wasn't one the one who called any names. Right now, she is also trying to forget about what just happened and start fresh. The problem here is miscommunication. I think you said something while you meant something else and others took it as something completely different and then it escalated to a fight. (To be exact, it seemed like you were pointing fingers saying nobody helps on the forum and that was the way it started. I think that it was unintentional but hurt some feelings nonetheless).
We just like to laugh for no reason as a form of laughter therapy because NDVO is driving us insane with the wait... And tatti is a word (I don't even know if it's a bad word like swearing) that people crack up laughing just like farting, Sardar/Pathan jokes... Etc... How jokes go... I know it's stupid.. But still makes us at least smile when we understand the joke.
Myrah isn't laughing at you, she is just saying that the word is funny, she even censored it... But I guess, different parts of India, the jokes are different, just like different parts of the States/Canada, the jokes are different such as jokes about blondes and the rednecks, etc.
So let's just forget about this and start fresh. Let's not bring hostile feeling into this forum which is our sanctuary of support and help with a pool of immense knowledge. God knows we have lots of problems with NDVO without adding any more here.