Need help- all alone in a motel and no work....what do I do.??

[angelobb]

I was sponsored by my Common LAw Spouse of three years and we just recently moved to BC and live with her parents. For three months we have had constant disagreements and a couple of days ago I was forced to leave the house. I packed all my belongings in three bags and cabbed to a cheap motel for shelter. I have a thousand dollar credit card and that all- I don't have a job- i don't know anyone and I lost in a strange country.

I left my Sin Card and PR card in her house and she does not want to return it- she said she will destroy it. I don't have anyone back home (Australia) and I have given up everything for this.

I'm scared and depressed and more than anything I feel like just ending my life......I just don't know what else I can do or how I can afford anything. I have midterms coming up which I probably won't do and drop out as I can not focus on anything. The motel I'm staying at looks like it's filled with drug lords and hookers and at night I get scared to death or not able to fall asleep.......

Please, please, please help me..............I just need advise. I'm so lost, so scared.

 

[angelobb]

someone had commented something saying ... troll detected..... I don't know what this means..

 

[heatherusa]

I dont normally respond to posts like this but it is late, I have been drinking, and blah blah blah

It sounds as though you are already a permanent resident of Canada, sponsored by your common law partner? is that correct?

If that is the case you are entitled to all of the rights and responsibiliites of a permanent resident. If she wont give you back your card go and get another one... tell the SIN office that you have lost yours and you need a replacement...

as for the rest of it... hookers and drug lords are really quite nice people... dont judge them too quickly....

take a deep breath and reevaluate what your priorities are.... sometimes when you are at your loweset that is when opportunity and faith present themselves....

the troll thing is that people see post like this are often made by "fake" people in an effort to waste time and "heart" resources on someone who is fake and trying to waste others time.... Im happy to resond since, like I said, i have been drinking and dont much care if you are a troll or not!


If you are real... then seek help --no one can limit you if you let them..... if you are fake, oh well,,,, it is time to refil my drink anywayl...

best of luck...


BTW... change you attitude about where you are, if you really are in a motel with drug dealers and hookers, beacuse if you are accepting of them they wont bother you too much

(not sure I said anything of any real value but boy did it make me feel good about myself to respond!_)

 

[HoneyBird]

Logically If i wanted back my belongings (Sin and so forth) I would have to make a report to the Police Station.

Logically If i had no money etc. I would have have to contact social welfare services (perhaps the Police can best advise) to be placed on welfare.

Having lodged the above two reports..especially with the Police..showing whatever abuse you have suffered at the hands of your spouse, even keeping text messages, emails, phone records and so forth, with regards to separating, maybe you can get something financially from her...and stops her from further abusive behaviour towards you.

There are many temporary jobs available for the Christmas Season as well. So you can look around and see what you can apply for..