Dear Forum,
I hope you can guide us in the right direction. I will describe below the best I can.
- A relative of mine has been bipolar for approx 2 years now ( lets call her Ruby, age = 23 years ) , Been on meds for the past year and still on meds today.
- For the last month, she has not been taking her meds regularly.
- 6 months back, a refugee living here in Canada approached her, showing interest in her.
- This refugee has been given a deportation letter already ( Before he met Ruby )
- The place where he works, the owner has appealed or baled him out to extend his stay.
- Ruby somehow gets attracted to this person and the friendship starts.
* Ruby does not get along well with all her siblings at home, due to her bipolar disease, she has her ups and downs.
* Last week, she runs away from home, and she and the refugee go and get married, so now they are legally husband and wife.
* Ruby also filed a complaint against her entire family, that they are against this marriage, and that the family was very upset.
* After the marriage, Ruby stayed with the Refugee for 2 days, but is now back at home living with Mom and family due to pressure to bring her back home, as she has mental issues.
*** Ruby's family does not agree with this marriage and is trying to convince Ruby, that she has fallen into a Marriage of Convenience trap, but Ruby is not accepting this.
*** Ruby says to family that she wants to be with him and that the Refugee is not using her, She says the Refugee said if he gets deported, you can come live with me back home in my native land.
*** Ruby's bipolar is very severe, she has made suicidal threats, and also threatened to harm her siblings + burn down the house, gets very aggressive in the house and at times would start hitting her siblings, at late night hours, Ruby would wander off deep into the Ravines by herself. ( I am just mentioning this behaviour to show this is not normal )
If you need more clarification, pls ask me freely.
But i am humbly asking the forum, is there anything our family can do to stop this predator from destroying Ruby's life and future.
I hope you can guide us in the right direction. I will describe below the best I can.
- A relative of mine has been bipolar for approx 2 years now ( lets call her Ruby, age = 23 years ) , Been on meds for the past year and still on meds today.
- For the last month, she has not been taking her meds regularly.
- 6 months back, a refugee living here in Canada approached her, showing interest in her.
- This refugee has been given a deportation letter already ( Before he met Ruby )
- The place where he works, the owner has appealed or baled him out to extend his stay.
- Ruby somehow gets attracted to this person and the friendship starts.
* Ruby does not get along well with all her siblings at home, due to her bipolar disease, she has her ups and downs.
* Last week, she runs away from home, and she and the refugee go and get married, so now they are legally husband and wife.
* Ruby also filed a complaint against her entire family, that they are against this marriage, and that the family was very upset.
* After the marriage, Ruby stayed with the Refugee for 2 days, but is now back at home living with Mom and family due to pressure to bring her back home, as she has mental issues.
*** Ruby's family does not agree with this marriage and is trying to convince Ruby, that she has fallen into a Marriage of Convenience trap, but Ruby is not accepting this.
*** Ruby says to family that she wants to be with him and that the Refugee is not using her, She says the Refugee said if he gets deported, you can come live with me back home in my native land.
*** Ruby's bipolar is very severe, she has made suicidal threats, and also threatened to harm her siblings + burn down the house, gets very aggressive in the house and at times would start hitting her siblings, at late night hours, Ruby would wander off deep into the Ravines by herself. ( I am just mentioning this behaviour to show this is not normal )
If you need more clarification, pls ask me freely.
But i am humbly asking the forum, is there anything our family can do to stop this predator from destroying Ruby's life and future.