My husband withdrawn my sponsorship based on delay in "Marriage Contract"

[Paulsha]

I am a Christian girl from Karachi-Pakistan who belongs to a middle class family. I am an educated and career oriented. I married with a Canadian citizen man on December, 27th 2014 in Pakistan. This marriage proposal referred through my sister living in Canada & my husband was her neighbor

Anyhow, time passes & we were frequently in contact through whatsapp calling & text without a gap. Even he visited Pakistan 4 times to see me. During the time lawyer completed with our documents & information she required & filed my case in March, 2016. Finally Wayne sponsorship application approved in May-2016 & I’ve been allot with UCI / application #

During the course of time, one thing was really bothering me which was purely my husband's behavior/attitude for whenever he sent me wife support money Rs.20000 only which he start sending me from 2016 Jan, he fights & accuses me misusing his money or forbidden as if i was demanding him more money & many time defaming my character & frequently abusive language which was becoming metal torturing for me because every time he claims over call & text that I will take a decision. Several times I paid apology for no reason & just to set him normal. As day passes my husband adapted this skeptical nature for me on regular bases. He also creating rifts among my family by unpleasant talks & manipulating things his way. When I felt my relation again declining so I took a step ahead by withdrawal from wife-support money Rs. 20000 he send me for only 08 months to avoid fights.

God’s knows what happens with his mind, he demands me to sign pre-nuptial/marriage contract on force & applied condition of my entry in Canada for his future security through same Lawyer who was handling my PR immigration case. His lawyer email me contract with advice to hire a lawyer for ILA. Being Pakistani I have no clue of these Canadian legalities but again I agreed to sign Marriage Contact with request to help me for getting lawyer for me. But to my utter surprise, based on zero tolerance for taking in signing marriage contract he called my on 13th Feb 2017 & email me to END this marriage with stating “He have lost feeling for me”!!! This was dying situation for me. First step he took by cancelling his sponsorship of my PR by sending confirmation letter through Lawyer & wrong statement that we both agreed to end this marriage which is totally false statement.

I request lawyer in reply but she went silent too. My was simply escaping by not communicating me or my family in Canada. I called his mother in Canada & friend but they showed helpless too front of him. My sister visited several time his home but he never opens his door.

Anyway... finally my family got hold on him & talk to him & we got patch up BUT my sponsorship cancelled in his anger decision which was confirmed by his lawyer. Now he threats me for divorce again because he said he cant wait for me coming Canada so late. Even now he is pressuring me daily bases to get Lawyer in Canada for Marriage Contract ILA & attestation.

What is my fault if CIC terms takes such long process time for spouse PR immigration? Why do I have to pay by giving up my marriage?
At the of marriage he never discussion about any Marriage Contract or even at the time of applying PR immigration he or his lawyer never told me that your entry to Canada based on Signing this Marriage Contract.... Me & my sister in Canada have check with many lawyer to see my case but everyone lawyer giving the same reply that without your presence in Canada we cant entertain your case. But my husband living in Canada not trust me or neither helping to find lawyer for me.

Is there is any help i can get because my marriage is on stake!!!

My question is "Will Canadian government encourage this kind of act done by their citizen"?? Can one sided divorce is acceptable is my situation where my life seems ruined by Canadian Citizen??

Please need advise to my above request.

GOD BLESS YOU ALL
PAKISTANI CHRISTIAN GIRL SEEKING HELP

 

[Bcboundboy]

I am a Christian girl from Karachi-Pakistan who belongs to a middle class family. I am an educated and career oriented. I married with a Canadian citizen man on December, 27th 2014 in Pakistan. This marriage proposal referred through my sister living in Canada & my husband was her neighbor

Anyhow, time passes & we were frequently in contact through whatsapp calling & text without a gap. Even he visited Pakistan 4 times to see me. During the time lawyer completed with our documents & information she required & filed my case in March, 2016. Finally Wayne sponsorship application approved in May-2016 & I’ve been allot with UCI / application #

During the course of time, one thing was really bothering me which was purely my husband's behavior/attitude for whenever he sent me wife support money Rs.20000 only which he start sending me from 2016 Jan, he fights & accuses me misusing his money or forbidden as if i was demanding him more money & many time defaming my character & frequently abusive language which was becoming metal torturing for me because every time he claims over call & text that I will take a decision. Several times I paid apology for no reason & just to set him normal. As day passes my husband adapted this skeptical nature for me on regular bases. He also creating rifts among my family by unpleasant talks & manipulating things his way. When I felt my relation again declining so I took a step ahead by withdrawal from wife-support money Rs. 20000 he send me for only 08 months to avoid fights.

God’s knows what happens with his mind, he demands me to sign pre-nuptial/marriage contract on force & applied condition of my entry in Canada for his future security through same Lawyer who was handling my PR immigration case. His lawyer email me contract with advice to hire a lawyer for ILA. Being Pakistani I have no clue of these Canadian legalities but again I agreed to sign Marriage Contact with request to help me for getting lawyer for me. But to my utter surprise, based on zero tolerance for taking in signing marriage contract he called my on 13th Feb 2017 & email me to END this marriage with stating “He have lost feeling for me”!!! This was dying situation for me. First step he took by cancelling his sponsorship of my PR by sending confirmation letter through Lawyer & wrong statement that we both agreed to end this marriage which is totally false statement.

I request lawyer in reply but she went silent too. My was simply escaping by not communicating me or my family in Canada. I called his mother in Canada & friend but they showed helpless too front of him. My sister visited several time his home but he never opens his door.

Anyway... finally my family got hold on him & talk to him & we got patch up BUT my sponsorship cancelled in his anger decision which was confirmed by his lawyer. Now he threats me for divorce again because he said he cant wait for me coming Canada so late. Even now he is pressuring me daily bases to get Lawyer in Canada for Marriage Contract ILA & attestation.

What is my fault if CIC terms takes such long process time for spouse PR immigration? Why do I have to pay by giving up my marriage?
At the of marriage he never discussion about any Marriage Contract or even at the time of applying PR immigration he or his lawyer never told me that your entry to Canada based on Signing this Marriage Contract.... Me & my sister in Canada have check with many lawyer to see my case but everyone lawyer giving the same reply that without your presence in Canada we cant entertain your case. But my husband living in Canada not trust me or neither helping to find lawyer for me.

Is there is any help i can get because my marriage is on stake!!!

My question is "Will Canadian government encourage this kind of act done by their citizen"?? Can one sided divorce is acceptable is my situation where my life seems ruined by Canadian Citizen??

Please need advise to my above request.

GOD BLESS YOU ALL
PAKISTANI CHRISTIAN GIRL SEEKING HELP

If your sponsor no longer wishes to sponsor you, then no, you cannot get Permanent Residency. The Canadian government will neither encourage nor discourage their citizens from getting married and divorced - it's not something they care about. A divorce is certainly reasonable when one side no longer wants to be married - otherwise countless lives would be ruined trapped in unhappy marriages.

Permanent Residency is something that you would get in order to live with your Canadian partner. As you no longer have a Canadian partner, you have no need for Permanent Residency, and don't qualify for it.

 

[scylla]

I'm sorry your marriage hasn't worked out.

As explained above, your husband is allowed to cancel your PR application since he is the sponsor. He is not obligated to sponsor you for PR and you are not entitled to PR just because you are married to him. If you still want to immigrate to Canada, then you will have to qualify for PR on your own through one of the economic immigration streams like Federal Skilled Worker / Express Entry.

As also explained above, the government isn't going to get involved in your divorce. There is really no way of stopping your husband from divorcing you if he no longer wants to be married to you - and yes, a one-sided divorce will be accepted.

 

[Rob_TO]

My question is "Will Canadian government encourage this kind of act done by their citizen"?? Can one sided divorce is acceptable is my situation where my life seems ruined by Canadian Citizen??

They neither encourage nor discourage. All it takes is 1 side to want to separate.

For PR application it's 100% the sole decision of the Canadian citizen/PR if they wish to sponsor a spouse to Canada. There is NO law or anything that says they must sponsor anyone for PR. So if the citizen/PR wants to withdraw their sponsorship for any reason at all, it's entirely their choice and there is nothing the applicant can do about it.

Although in your case it sounds like your husband was not the person he seemed and perhaps it's for the best you didn't have to travel to Canada to find that out.

 

[kasskiss125]

They neither encourage nor discourage. All it takes is 1 side to want to separate.

For PR application it's 100% the sole decision of the Canadian citizen/PR if they wish to sponsor a spouse to Canada. There is NO law or anything that says they must sponsor anyone for PR. So if the citizen/PR wants to withdraw their sponsorship for any reason at all, it's entirely their choice and there is nothing the applicant can do about it.

Although in your case it sounds like your husband was not the person he seemed and perhaps it's for the best you didn't have to travel to Canada to find that out.

true. This is a personal matter. it has nothing to do with the government of Canada.

 

[IuliaMB]

This may not be what you want to hear, but it sounds to me like you may have dodged a bullet. Your husband's withdrawal as a sponsor and threats of divorce point to him being a manipulative, quick to anger person you wouldn't want to be stuck in a marriage with.

The Canadian government does not interfere in their citizens marriages. He is free to marry and/or divorce as he wishes, and he is not obligated to sponsor you even though you are his wife.

He can re-apply as a sponsor if you two do decide to mend your marriage, but be aware that the fact that he withdrew his sponsorship once before will be seen as a red flag, and it will be harder to prove that your marriage is genuine.

I am truly sorry for the situation you are in.