Love or Opportunity? Coffee Social

[amikety]

Thatz true...

I'm not even going to get started on the irony here.

 

[parker24]

Hello All!!

It is WARM today. But I refuse to go outside. In too much pain today. GRRR.

Anyone been watching the Jodi Arias trial? I've been watching it on and off but her defence team is starting to get on my nerves!! Trying to get a mistrial AFTER she has been found guilty... Right. That'll work.......... :

I thought I'd share that Tony's great-grandmother passed away on Friday. I found her orbit online and saw a photo of her. She looked so sweet. Never got to meet her She was 93 so obviously she lived a long time! Was born in 1920!! Can only imagine the stories she would have had!!!

 

[amikety]

Hello All!!

It is WARM today. But I refuse to go outside. In too much pain today. GRRR.

Anyone been watching the Jodi Arias trial? I've been watching it on and off but her defence team is starting to get on my nerves!! Trying to get a mistrial AFTER she has been found guilty... Right. That'll work.......... :

I thought I'd share that Tony's great-grandmother passed away on Friday. I found her orbit online and saw a photo of her. She looked so sweet. Never got to meet her She was 93 so obviously she lived a long time! Was born in 1920!! Can only imagine the stories she would have had!!!

My grandmother (dad's side) was born right before WWI started. They came over to the USA when she was a small child. Getting yelled in Gaelic, fond memories

The stories were the best. Learned many neat things and a lot of things I didn't need to know! Watching gameshows with Grandma was awesome too. She knew EVERYTHING (except recent pop culture).

 

[parker24]

Hi all! How is everyone doing? I'm in a TERRIBLE mood and could use some laughs.

 

[nanediniz]

Hey Parker.

I wish I had a good joke to tell you. Truth is my mood is not great either...
Anybody?

 

[Steph C]

Hi guys, I don't come here often.. but I followed Parker here coz she seemed upset.. you can't look at this pic and not laugh

 

[nanediniz]

Thanks Steph, it put a smile on my face

 

[parker24]

Hi guys, I don't come here often.. but I followed Parker here coz she seemed upset.. you can't look at this pic and not laugh

Thanks Steph! I love dogs, that made me giggle!

 

[Steph C]

Thanks Steph! I love dogs, that made me giggle!

Hey cool you have 3001 posts and now you're a VIP member! You can pull rank now

 

[nanediniz]

Anyone having problems with your spouse's ex-spouse?
I am not even in Canada yet and it seems I am gonna have a lot of trouble...
The woman seems to be determined to not leave us alone, using their kids as an excuse. She got everything already, their house, their car, her lifestyle, their kids and child support. My husband left the marriage only with his clothes and she wants more and more and she is mad my husband is supporting me financially as if he was neglecting his kids, which he is not. (detail, my husband doesn't support me financially yet once I don't live with him, but he pays for our trips and outings)
He mows her lawn, take and pick up the kids everywhere (sports and music activities), change his days with the kids as she pleases, share the debts of the gifts she buys the kids without consulting him, never failed paying child support and even pays for it in advance, and he has the kids half of the time (Wednesdays, Fridays, Saturdays and Sundays until lunch time). He is a dream ex-husband and he wants her to be happy but she seems to be unable to.
I am not sure how to deal with this. My husband just don't tell her anything as he is always afraid to make her mad, but she is always mad anyway.
Forgive my outburst but I don't have anyone I can talk to about this (as I don't want to make my family worried about us).

 

[Steph C]

Anyone having problems with your spouse's ex-spouse?
I am not even in Canada yet and it seems I am gonna have a lot of trouble...
The woman seems to be determined to not leave us alone, using their kids as an excuse. She got everything already, their house, their car, her lifestyle, their kids and child support. My husband left the marriage only with his clothes and she wants more and more and she is mad my husband is supporting me financially as if he was neglecting his kids, which he is not. (detail, my husband doesn't support me financially yet once I don't live with him, but he pays for our trips and outings)
He mows her lawn, take and pick up the kids everywhere (sports and music activities), change his days with the kids as she pleases, share the debts of the gifts she buys the kids without consulting him, never failed paying child support and even pays for it in advance, and he has the kids half of the time (Wednesdays, Fridays, Saturdays and Sundays until lunch time). He is a dream ex-husband and he wants her to be happy but she seems to be unable to.
I am not sure how to deal with this. My husband just don't tell her anything as he is always afraid to make her mad, but she is always mad anyway.
Forgive my outburst but I don't have anyone I can talk to about this (as I don't want to make my family worried about us).

Yes, my partner's ex spouse is like that too. Takes everything, and is crazy, won't ever leave him alone with texting threats or bothering him for more money.. any time she gets money she tries to get more. It's really awful. We are hoping that when he's in Canada she will not bother him as much, but she will bother his parents forever. Personally it's really hard when he pays so much attention to her, even if it's negative attention I feel like it's still a kind of 'relationship' per se. It takes time away from us being happy together and he also doesn't know when to let it go because he lets her make him so angry.

 

[nanediniz]

Yes, my partner's ex spouse is like that too. Takes everything, and is crazy, won't ever leave him alone with texting threats or bothering him for more money.. any time she gets money she tries to get more. It's really awful. We are hoping that when he's in Canada she will not bother him as much, but she will bother his parents forever. Personally it's really hard when he pays so much attention to her, even if it's negative attention I feel like it's still a kind of 'relationship' per se. It takes time away from us being happy together and he also doesn't know when to let it go because he lets her make him so angry.

You're going through the exact same thing I am. Why can't them just move on with their lives?
My feeling is that his ex doesn't want to see him happy. She also threats him all the time saying the kids won't come to stay with him when I get there. She is awful! I feel sorry for her because she seems not to be living her life, but ours.
I don't mean that woman any harm and I am sure with love in our hearts and good thoughts in our minds we can do anything.
Thanks for sharing and let me know how you are doing Steph!

 

[Steph C]

You're going through the exact same thing I am. Why can't them just move on with their lives?
My feeling is that his ex doesn't want to see him happy. She also threats him all the time saying the kids won't come to stay with him when I get there. She is awful! I feel sorry for her because she seems not to be living her life, but ours.
I don't mean that woman any harm and I am sure with love in our hearts and good thoughts in our minds we can do anything.
Thanks for sharing and let me know how you are doing Steph!

I don't understand it either, why after all that time they can't just move on and make a choice to be happy. It defies all logic. I thought it was a culture thing on her part, I mean this lady is insane, and she also practices witchcraft, which it kind of funny but actually not really. It's a whole lot of bad vibes. Is this lady, the ex of your man, a Latina or is she Canadian?

 

[nanediniz]

I don't understand it either, why after all that time they can't just move on and make a choice to be happy. It defies all logic. I thought it was a culture thing on her part, I mean this lady is insane, and she also practices witchcraft, which it kind of funny but actually not really. It's a whole lot of bad vibes. Is this lady, the ex of your man, a Latina or is she Canadian?

She is Canadian and her behavior doesn't make any sense to me. Sometimes she acts like she wants him back, or like she is jealous of him. But, she has a boyfriend... Go figure!
She has never seen me before and once she said to my husband I was jealous of her! She is nuts!
What about your man's ex? Where is she from? I tell you that, no need to practice witchcraft to send bad vibes! ???

 

[Steph C]

She's Filipina. Their culture and behaviour is really Latin. She even had a baby from another guy last year. But I guess he didn't stick around and she needs money so her job is a professional annoyer. She's never worked, ever.

He leaves his Facebook public and we know she checks on it.. it's kind of funny because sometimes he will post random photos of us together and she will go off her rocker thinking I'm in the Philippines. My inlaws actually took us to a witch doctor far in the jungle to remove a curse from us once. It was totally bizarre. Last week he posted a pic of his visa to Facebook and she is going insane. She's demanding a raise, of double her money because he will be going to Canada. Please if you know any Canadian men you don't like I can hook them up. I found her profile online at cherryblossoms.com posing in her undies.. hee hee. Looking for a man *any age*