Love or Opportunity? Coffee Social

[jerry84]

WE all can't help it. It's our sweet nature!! LOL ;D

It's pretty normal to bicker and funny as it sounds, though you're not physically together, you still need to give a bit of space from time to time. I'm lucky mine loves to talk so it's kept us going really good.

and mine just loves to listen and I get annoyed

 

[amikety]

and mine just loves to listen and I get annoyed

Omg, that would annoy me. I love bickering.... must be the Irish in me. If my husband let me walk all over him, I'd probably beat him up....... he he... Okay not really. Too wimpy to beat up anyone except myself.........

 

[Halfmoon]

lol true. It just worries me sometimes strictly because our VO time is 26 months. Its only been 7 months since I got married but I never realized living apart would be SO hard! Its so silly sometimes ugh pisses me off .

Well at least you know you're not alone. I want to scream sometimes but he always has a way to make me smile again!!! Argh just adore him to pieces!!!

 

[jerry84]

he just listens and if I say WHY AREN'T YOU SAYING ANYTIHNG /.. the response I get is "babe I like listening to you" and I am like UGHHHHHHHHH!

 

[Halfmoon]

I agree. I have a nine hour time difference and it can be overly frustrating somedays. I cant count the number of days where i start at 2am just to talk to my hubby before work. I just keep remindong myself i love him amd that someday soon it will all be over!! The next arguement will be for me to clean the room to meet his cleanliness standards!

I guess I should take a seat. I've been complaining about 1hour time differences for 6 months out of the year.

 

[Halfmoon]

and mine just loves to listen and I get annoyed

If I get upset, all I hear is silence. Like when the tv goes on mute!! LOLOL. Then I'll ask, don't you have anything to say and his usual response...I have no comment. LOLOL

But I'd rather that than someone who yells and disrespects me.

 

[Halfmoon]

he just listens and if I say WHY AREN'T YOU SAYING ANYTIHNG /.. the response I get is "babe I like listening to you" and I am like UGHHHHHHHHH!

LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!! I thought it was just my husband that says things like that!!!! I thought I'm the only one that goes through that!!! This is soooo funny!

 

[jerry84]

I agree. I have a nine hour time difference and it can be overly frustrating somedays. I cant count the number of days where i start at 2am just to talk to my hubby before work. I just keep remindong myself i love him amd that someday soon it will all be over!! The next arguement will be for me to clean the room to meet his cleanliness standards!

My hubby is honestly the best, touch wood he's amazing. He actually stays up to talk to me and when its my night time he tells me he's busy and can't talk just so I don't lose my sleep!

 

[jerry84]

LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!! I thought it was just my husband that says things like that!!!! I thought I'm the only one that goes through that!!! This is soooo funny!

OMG ME TOO, I THOUGHT IT WAS JUST MY HUSBAND WHO SAYS THAT LOL!

 

[jerry84]

If I get upset, all I hear is silence. Like when the tv goes on mute!! LOLOL. Then I'll ask, don't you have anything to say and his usual response...I have no comment. LOLOL

But I'd rather that than someone who yells and disrespects me.

I couldn't agree more! We should be thankful lol.

 

[blueboom]

We eloped : and had a very small and private civil ceremony

That sounds so lovely and perfect!!

We wanted to elope SO BADLY but we ended up with 1000 wedding guests.

We registered our marriage a week before our wedding and exchanged rings, etc. In our heads, that was our real marriage and I remember it so fondly. It's as though we married twice - fitting because he proposed to me three times (FYI I said yes the first time... he just kept getting down on one knee and asking). I should ask him when our next marriage is happening!

 

[Halfmoon]

I couldn't agree more! We should be thankful lol.

Yup so now you can feel assured that it's normal to bicker. ;D

 

[amikety]

That sounds so lovely and perfect!!

We wanted to elope SO BADLY but we ended up with 1000 wedding guests.

We registered our marriage a week before our wedding and exchanged rings, etc. In our heads, that was our real marriage and I remember it so fondly. It's as though we married twice - fitting because he proposed to me three times (FYI I said yes the first time... he just kept getting down on one knee and asking). I should ask him when our next marriage is happening!

I'm still waiting for a proper proposal. All I want is something sweet and proper....sigh. Should probably give up now.

 

[Halfmoon]

That sounds so lovely and perfect!!

We wanted to elope SO BADLY but we ended up with 1000 wedding guests.

We registered our marriage a week before our wedding and exchanged rings, etc. In our heads, that was our real marriage and I remember it so fondly. It's as though we married twice - fitting because he proposed to me three times (FYI I said yes the first time... he just kept getting down on one knee and asking). I should ask him when our next marriage is happening!

That is sooooo sweet. Isn't it truly amazing the feeling of becoming one?

When it was my hubbie's turn to put my ring on at the church, he got down on his knees. All I heard in the background from the crowd...." Awwwwww, oooooooohhhh,"

I swear he came from story book fairy tale.

 

[jerry84]

Yup so now you can feel assured that it's normal to bicker. ;D

I think my husband secretly thinks he married a psycho.