Yo differently everyone have a story as you said. I could write a book, but that wouldnt make no difference on how they process files. I basically said the same thing Charlie said, after I posted, I realized she type the same thing but because she stated it in a more "educated" way you felt to try and be feisty with me. Sometimes its good to get reminders of things you may know or be aware of when your feeling low to get back into focus. If you want ppl to lie to you and pet and powder you like a fool then by all means, as I said I will not offer any more advice/perspective/kind words in your case since my opinion is not wanted by you. Big man ting you have a sick child, sorry for that guess what so do I, is yours more important than mine? probably not cuz they are both beautiful kids right. Vent away, this is definatly the right place, I probably should have vented on nuff f'ckry I see ppl write in here, but then again ppl dont want to hear the truth. Stressing over things you cannot control just makes matters worse, which was my original point. And this is something I have had to learn the hard way and still struggle with today. It is something my husband has taught me, and I am grateful. I was just trying to pass on the life lesson.
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