I feel like to sue the Canadian Embassy and Government...

[~*Dani*~]

I feel like to sue them for punitive damages such as emotional damages that caused me. The Embassy in Rabat refused my husband, it felt like it already killed me inside and outside really. I felt like I don't want to live anymore. I haven't eat anything lately and don't want to clean anything.

I stay in our bedroom all day long and never been out of bedroom.

like I said, The Embassy destroyed me because I wanted my husband and I go home to Canada(Saskatoon) together. I would absolutely not leaving him behind since I been living in Morocco with him for a year, it will be 2 year in August 2013.

I already appealed and got the lawyer. He said that IAD received my Notice of Appeal in Early January(He filed in early November). so IAD and my lawyer is still waiting for Embassy to forward our application file-it should arrive around March 1st between 9th..it take time for mailing to Canada from Morocco.

I tried to think positive and keep myself occupied but..it is too much for me. I want my husband and I in Saskatoon really bad. We just want to have a life there, have a future and have a family,jobs so on. The Embassy totally ruined it.

I want to sue them and fire VO( a woman) who interviewed my husband. I want her held for emotional damages and ruin our future and people's future.

I wish there is a changes at Embassy such like interviewing a spouse and sponsor and take a second opinion..and second interview.

 

[wilson]

I feel like to sue them for punitive damages such as emotional damages that caused me. The Embassy in Rabat refused my husband, it felt like it already killed me inside and outside really. I felt like I don't want to live anymore. I haven't eat anything lately and don't want to clean anything.

I stay in our bedroom all day long and never been out of bedroom.

like I said, The Embassy destroyed me because I wanted my husband and I go home to Canada(Saskatoon) together. I would absolutely not leaving him behind since I been living in Morocco with him for a year, it will be 2 year in August 2013.

I already appealed and got the lawyer. He said that IAD received my Notice of Appeal in Early January(He filed in early November). so IAD and my lawyer is still waiting for Embassy to forward our application file-it should arrive around March 1st between 9th..it take time for mailing to Canada from Morocco.

I tried to think positive and keep myself occupied but..it is too much for me. I want my husband and I in Saskatoon really bad. We just want to have a life there, have a future and have a family,jobs so on. The Embassy totally ruined it.

I want to sue them and fire VO( a woman) who interviewed my husband. I want her held for emotional damages and ruin our future and people's future.

I wish there is a changes at Embassy such like interviewing a spouse and sponsor and take a second opinion..and second interview.

From your post what I can understand is your sponsorship did not finalize favorably. You did not mention what has happened ?. If there is a rejection, there are always certain findings and reason with the visa office. You should obtain GCMS to know what reasons are behind. However, your husband will be able to explain whether there were some embarrassing situation during the interview.

I am unable to make any more comments on a vague subject.

 

[millslu]

my dear you shouldnt threat it as long as you are getting your appealing then that is fine, as far as suing them and even putting yourself through uncertain stress like that wouldnt do good for you, that is the process and thousands of people around the world who wants to go to canada are going through the same thing. Usually and most of the time the appeal always goes good. In the interview did you ask your husband if he answer all the questions properly did he have a good idea of dates and times with you, did you provide enough evidence to prove your marriage in those two years, VO officers are not trained to breakdown marriages or loved ones but they do make mistakes as well. so maybe you can take time to see what happen and dont give up if you believe in your marriage then fight for your husband fight hard and fight long and only in the end you will become victorious.

 

[CanadianJeepGuy]

I feel like to sue them for punitive damages such as emotional damages that caused me. The Embassy in Rabat refused my husband, it felt like it already killed me inside and outside really. I felt like I don't want to live anymore. I haven't eat anything lately and don't want to clean anything.

I stay in our bedroom all day long and never been out of bedroom.

like I said, The Embassy destroyed me because I wanted my husband and I go home to Canada(Saskatoon) together. I would absolutely not leaving him behind since I been living in Morocco with him for a year, it will be 2 year in August 2013.

I already appealed and got the lawyer. He said that IAD received my Notice of Appeal in Early January(He filed in early November). so IAD and my lawyer is still waiting for Embassy to forward our application file-it should arrive around March 1st between 9th..it take time for mailing to Canada from Morocco.

I tried to think positive and keep myself occupied but..it is too much for me. I want my husband and I in Saskatoon really bad. We just want to have a life there, have a future and have a family,jobs so on. The Embassy totally ruined it.

I want to sue them and fire VO( a woman) who interviewed my husband. I want her held for emotional damages and ruin our future and people's future.

I wish there is a changes at Embassy such like interviewing a spouse and sponsor and take a second opinion..and second interview.

I would like to sue the government everyday...and I'm from here.

Looks like you were a successful sponsor so the problem happened in the interview. Maybe go through that with your husband to see what he may have said that would indicate to CIC that your marriage is questionable.

 

[scylla]

Dani -

I'm very sorry about your refusal. I remember reading the full details of your case when you first posted. I know you don't want to hear this - but your profile does contain a number of red flags. I know your relationship is real. However I also understand why CIC is questioning it (unfortunately it's there job to do so when there are red flags).

Rather than directing your energy negatively towards anger and depression - I would encourage you to instead direct this energy more positively and focus on collecting evidence of your relationship and practicing interviewing with your husband so that you can win the appeal. I would also encourage you to really look at your case and understand why CIC sees red flags. The best way to deal with red flags is to acknowledge them and then prove why they don't matter in your relationship. Don't ignore the red flags or say they aren't there. That's the worst thing you can do.

I wish you luck in your appeal. I'm sure everything will work out for you and your husband.

 

[sunsun]

I don't think you can sue and fire the Visa Officer.... I feel your pain and wish good luck to both of you...

 

[gsize]

my sponsorship was Approved in Canada then forwarded the application to Rabat and my husband had a interview on October 18th, 2012-read my dates carefully on my profile!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I fee like want to say *censored word* everyone off because.... its too much for me. we live together, married for almost 2 year. I want to sue Canadian Embassy for damages. I am so angry at them.


the interview went well. the visa officer lied to his face that everything is fine. then one week later, he recieved a phone call that we are refused. I screamed... NO NO NO NO NO, that can't be! that is not impossible!!!! NO NO NO!!! I tried to kill myself but my husband stopped me.

the refusal reasons that VO think that we did it on purpose by living together to get the visa status and we are not genuine. plus I am not in Canada and not believe that we return to Canada once my husband get the visa. she also don't believe that he will not stay with me once we are in CAnada. that is LIE!!!

*censored word* Canada and everything. I am so ashamed to be Canadian, really. that's why I want to sue The Canadian Embassy for the pain that they caused me so much. I really want my husband and I have a good life together in Saskatoon where my family live.

my lawyer said that all interview and reasons will be included in application file once Embassy forward to my lawyer and IAD soon in early March.

I know how you feel. Only the names have changed. You need to be strong and keep busy !!!!. Most appeals win !!!!!!

 

[goodman36]

my sponsorship was Approved in Canada then forwarded the application to Rabat and my husband had a interview on October 18th, 2012-read my dates carefully on my profile!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I fee like want to say *censored word* everyone off because.... its too much for me. we live together, married for almost 2 year. I want to sue Canadian Embassy for damages. I am so angry at them.


the interview went well. the visa officer lied to his face that everything is fine. then one week later, he recieved a phone call that we are refused. I screamed... NO NO NO NO NO, that can't be! that is not impossible!!!! NO NO NO!!! I tried to kill myself but my husband stopped me.

the refusal reasons that VO think that we did it on purpose by living together to get the visa status and we are not genuine. plus I am not in Canada and not believe that we return to Canada once my husband get the visa. she also don't believe that he will not stay with me once we are in CAnada. that is LIE!!!

*censored word* Canada and everything. I am so ashamed to be Canadian, really. that's why I want to sue The Canadian Embassy for the pain that they caused me so much. I really want my husband and I have a good life together in Saskatoon where my family live.

my lawyer said that all interview and reasons will be included in application file once Embassy forward to my lawyer and IAD soon in early March.

Very sorry to hear what happened. I have heard similar horror stories. I have noticed, a VO making a decision based on his/her interpretation when interviewing an applicant whose spouse is from the same country/ same culture but the age difference is more then usual or that the spouse living in Canada is uglier then the spouse so the VO suggests that the applicant will not stay with the Sponsor etc. etc. It is sad and can make anyone angry.

Unfortunately, there is little that can be done.

As Scylla said in his post, direct this energy into something positive. After all, you can live with your husband by living with him. Many of us here are away from our loved ones because we are PR or we work in Canada.

May be, you can contact a reporter in Toronto Star and tell your story. But then may be you should do that after your husband arrives in Canada just so that you don't suffer any more.

 

[mikeymyke]

Dani -

I'm very sorry about your refusal. I remember reading the full details of your case when you first posted. I know you don't want to hear this - but your profile does contain a number of red flags. I know your relationship is real. However I also understand why CIC is questioning it (unfortunately it's there job to do so when there are red flags).

Rather than directing your energy negatively towards anger and depression - I would encourage you to instead direct this energy more positively and focus on collecting evidence of your relationship and practicing interviewing with your husband so that you can win the appeal. I would also encourage you to really look at your case and understand why CIC sees red flags. The best way to deal with red flags is to acknowledge them and then prove why they don't matter in your relationship. Don't ignore the red flags or say they aren't there. That's the worst thing you can do.

I wish you luck in your appeal. I'm sure everything will work out for you and your husband.

I read her previous posts, what are her red flags exactly? I would think the main reason the application was refused was because the husband didn't answer the questions well during the interview. Their relationship might be genuine and real, but I guess all it takes is a few poorly answered questions to get a refusal.

 

[gsize]

I read her previous posts, what are her red flags exactly? I would think the main reason the application was refused was because the husband didn't answer the questions well during the interview. Their relationship might be genuine and real, but I guess all it takes is a few poorly answered questions to get a refusal.

as sad as it is, at least they are together (many of us are apart for years) Furthermore, their timeline is less than 1 year. To be honest, Im a little confused, Dani is acting as if she lost her Appeal.

I guess, they didnt do their research and thats why the shock. They will surely win their Appeal. Hopefully they wont have to wait 2 years like me.

 

[frankinto]

I was under the impression that sponsoring someone while you are out of the country yourself is risky, even if it is supposedly allowed. It's hard to be away from one's partner but sometimes you have to play it safe to get what you want. CIC needs to be certain that the sponsor will indeed return to Canada and be able to support the applicant if necessary. Unless you are independently wealthy, it can be hard to prove.

 

[lunas]

as sad as it is, at least they are together (many of us are apart for years) Furthermore, their timeline is less than 1 year. To be honest, Im a little confused, Dani is acting as if she lost her Appeal.

I guess, they didnt do their research and thats why the shock. They will surely win their Appeal. Hopefully they wont have to wait 2 years like me.

2 years!!
Well some will take it harder than others and Dani has fallen into deep depression.
I'm sorry to hear you guys have to wait so long. My heart goes out to you. On the brighter side, there is still hope. We all just need to keep going. Do not give up.

 

[gsize]

2 years!!
Well some will take it harder than others and Dani has fallen into deep depression.
I'm sorry to hear you guys have to wait so long. My heart goes out to you. On the brighter side, there is still hope. We all just need to keep going. Do not give up.

Believe me, I know how she feels. I imagine she will be on meds soon. Sad but true ! I will pray for her

 

[frankinto]

It's been more than 7 years in my case. The important thing is not to give up.

 

[sunsun]

7 years ? May I know which Visa Office did you apply ?