I dont want my husband get the PR

[scylla]

Hey Brita.

There seems to be a lot of people on this forum that think it's ok to be in a terrible marriage. I DO NOT!

Sometimes things cannot be worked out, no matter how much you have faith in a god.

I do not know your situation, but you sound very un-happy, and regardless of who is at fault, there is no point wasting the rest of your life on a marriege that makes you so sad.

So, as was mentioned in a previous post, if you can get yourself to Canada without your spouse, and activate your PR, then your spouse will find it difficult to follow you, especially as you are the main earner of the family. He will need to decide if it will be worth following you, with the possibility of having to make his own life in Canada by himself.

That may be so. But she still can't stop him from using the PR visa that has been issued to him and landing. This is completely out of her hands.

 

[kahiar]

this is off the top of my head... conspiracy hat on... please read this at your own risk;

Try to land in Canada on the very last or penultimate day of your visa validity... make this possible by hiding your plans from your spouse... if you can manage to land without him and on the very last day, the chances are he wont be able to follow you while his visa is still valid...

just a possibility. May god forgive me...

 

[229334]

this is off the top of my head... conspiracy hat on... please read this at your own risk;

Try to land in Canada on the very last or penultimate day of your visa validity... make this possible by hiding your plans from your spouse... if you can manage to land without him and on the very last day, the chances are he wont be able to follow you while his visa is still valid...

just a possibility. May god forgive me...

nice one..........+1.........how smart..... 8) 8)

 

[SenoritaBella]

hahahah kahair... God: "no no no no kahair, this is not what my teachings say, but you are forgiven my son/daughter" ;D

 

[slavasz]

this is off the top of my head... conspiracy hat on... please read this at your own risk;

Try to land in Canada on the very last or penultimate day of your visa validity... make this possible by hiding your plans from your spouse... if you can manage to land without him and on the very last day, the chances are he wont be able to follow you while his visa is still valid...

just a possibility. May god forgive me...

Looks like am option too.

 

[Dave n Ailsa]

this is off the top of my head... conspiracy hat on... please read this at your own risk;

Try to land in Canada on the very last or penultimate day of your visa validity... make this possible by hiding your plans from your spouse... if you can manage to land without him and on the very last day, the chances are he wont be able to follow you while his visa is still valid...

just a possibility. May god forgive me...

Brilliant! But you are terrible

 

[Asifov]

Hi

My husband and I are supposed to land in Canada within a month from now,however based on family problems I (as the main applicant) dont want my husband to be able to get his PR because I am not hopeful to continue my marital life with him. Now I want to know How I can ever have this right to cancel his Visa or PR after we landed. we are not yet divorced,but I dont feel secure if he lands and freely lives in Canada basd on my application.
Is there any way that I can exile him to his own country?

Thanks

Brita.

Firstly congratulations to you on getting the PR and my condolences for what ever is happened to you (God knows who is right).

Now coming to the point;
The question you had asked us (i consider my self as a family member of this forum) has a triangle type of angles:
No1 is Emotional
No2 is Ethical
No3 is practical

i will address each one separately

EMOTIONAL
I know it is very difficult for you to accept what has happened to you and i also know you know you conditions better as you are in your shoes.
Since, you dont want your husband's landing on canadian soil (as i never seen in your replies that there are problems with you husband but his family), its better to part ways with him when you are in canada if you both dont want to live with each other. There is no way you can cancel your dependent's application unless there is (God-forbade) a death or divorce (As far as i know). So let it be and come what may.

ETHICAL
You should think your application on the contrary as if he was the primary applicant. If he wanted you NOT to land on canadian soil; what would have been your feelings. Just think about it and keep you head cool; every person is a better judge of his own. What ever the decision of your application is, he is 50% shareholder of it.

PRACTICAL
This is what you should do with very careful thinkings and feelings.

Recommendations (As i see it)
1. Consult any lawyer if you can afford.
2. Try to reconcile with you husband.
3. If you guys land together, and you dont want to live with him. Part your ways and start new lives in canadian soil (Canada is very rich in all aspects).
4. if you guys land together, and you want to live with him. Start new life and live happily ever after.

i hope every one would agree with this. Feel free to add any thing

Asifov

 

[Trevor and Jo]

Dear brita,
dump the lazy good for nothing loser and go on your own, canada is a big country, let him try and find you.
Failing that, I take it you are still to buy the tickets to land? Conveniently forget to buy his and walk through to departures leaving him with the problem of getting home. That way he will have at least helped you with the bags to the airport!

Trevor & Jo

 

[Trevor and Jo]

Dear brita,
dump the lazy good for nothing loser and go on your own, canada is a big country, let him try and find you.
Failing that, I take it you are still to buy the tickets to land? Conveniently forget to buy his and walk through to departures leaving him with the problem of getting home. That way he will have at least helped you with the bags to the airport!

Trevor & Jo

and his bags will be packed conveniently to move on with his life! Very happy to help.

 

[Dave n Ailsa]

Burn his passport. That will give you a couple of months head start.

 

[awai ali]

Burn his passport. That will give you a couple of months head start.

lolz.......

 

[roomi24]

hide his passport

 

[SenoritaBella]

Err...not a good idea. It is a crime to tamper/destroy gov't property which a passport is.

Burn his passport. That will give you a couple of months head start.

 

[Pippin]

This is not a straightforward case. Time to talk to a reputable immigration lawyer. If you cannot find someone in your own country, contact this website's lawyer for a start. You want to start life in Canada with a clean slate and not looking over your shoulder at every corner. Get things sorted properly. Good Luck.

 

[Trevor and Jo]

I hope I did not cause any offence, I hope you get this sorted soon.