How many conversations from facebook in a month for proof of communication

[MelissaJohn]

I was with my spouse for about 4 years before we sent our application, we started our relationship in 2011. I'll give you a list of how I did our conversations

March 2011 - I included About 5 conversations of the months when we first started talking to show how our relationship developed. About 2 pages of each conversation. One being a screenshot, one being the copied chat on WordPad. We were friends at this time.

June 2011- We decided to date romantically, so I added about 5 conversations of us talking like a couple about 2 pages of each conversation.

Then I just did every three months 2 conversations that seemed important or showed our relationship developing. I added normal conversations about everyday life, and I also added one of our fights we had through chat. Normal couples fight it is ok to show an argument, it shows you are both human.

So it would be like
Sept 2011 - 2 chats 2 pages
December 2011- 2 chats 2 pages
March 2012 - 2 chats 2 pages
Up until 2015 when we sent our application.

You get the idea, just to show that we did continue communication throughout the years we said we were together.
Also, I included one extra chat when I flew to my husband's country, and I was talking to him during my connecting flights.

You don't have to show love stuff always, maybe add some conversations about you both talking about family and friends, how work was today. Normal stuff too, if you show only the romantic stuff it seems kind of forced to me anyways. Just look through the conversations you have and what seems important to you. I had a conversation of when my husband's grandmother passed away and I was comforting him, or a conversation of when I was worried about a sick family member and he comforted me. It shows how you care and worry about each other. We had a pretty thick amount of chats, but this is because we were apart for a few years so our online chats are how we kept our relationship going, so maybe I included more than the average person would!

Hope this helps!

 

[MelissaJohn]

Also, there is this great app for google chrome called "FaceBook Chat Downloader" you install it to google chrome, search a date and it will download the chats in a WordPad type form for you! It was a lifesaver for me, since scrolling through 400,000 facebook messages is a bit time consuming!

 

[Mahamn]

You took screenshots of a complete day in a month or 5 screenshots of 5 different dates in a month?

Sorry for the late reply. I took 5 screenshots of 5 random dates of the month because printing it all would be like 3000 pages. They just have to see that you communicate. I also had my whatsapp and skype chats with it.

 

[naveedali]

Sorry for the late reply. I took 5 screenshots of 5 random dates of the month because printing it all would be like 3000 pages. They just have to see that you communicate. I also had my whatsapp and skype chats with it.

im going to do the same as well i will take 8 screen shots of different dates of the month and will put 4 screenshots on 1 page mean 2 pages for 1 month. I can get chat of only 21 months so it will make 42 pages in total and will send more then 100 pages of facetime call record of the past 1 year i'm unable to get call history before that.

 

[Mahamn]

im going to do the same as well i will take 8 screen shots of different dates of the month and will put 4 screenshots on 1 page mean 2 pages for 1 month. I can get chat of only 21 months so it will make 42 pages in total and will send more then 100 pages of facetime call record of the past 1 year i'm unable to get call history before that.

Have you tried contacting your service provider for your phone bills?
I could not get them for more than a year ago, so i got whatever i could and sent that with everything.

 

[naveedali]

Have you tried contacting your service provider for your phone bills?
I could not get them for more than a year ago, so i got whatever i could and sent that with everything.

I have never called her directly from the phone. We always use facetime. I contacted apple and they said you can't get your whole history back.

 

[Mahamn]

I have never called her directly from the phone. We always use facetime. I contacted apple and they said you can't get your whole history back.

Take screenshots of those. I use Raza Mobile app from my phone to call him, so i just took screenshots of the call history. Pretty sure it wont be that big of a deal. I just wanted to provide as much proof as i could.

 

[bassix]

I just did a download straight from Facebook under Settings >> General.

It will dump all of your Facebook chats into an HTML Archive so you can then scroll through the conversations much easier.

It would seem to me that taking screen shots may be a little difficult but I guess a few wouldn't hurt.

The archive dumped out 5000 pages of chats after I had loaded them into Open Office and converted from HTML to txt.

Just my 2 cents

 

[Mahamn]

I just did a download straight from Facebook under Settings >> General.

It will dump all of your Facebook chats into an HTML Archive so you can then scroll through the conversations much easier.

It would seem to me that taking screen shots may be a little difficult but I guess a few wouldn't hurt.

The archive dumped out 5000 pages of chats after I had loaded them into Open Office and converted from HTML to txt.

Just my 2 cents

Ohhh that is a good one! Wish i knew about this!

 

[naveedali]

I just did a download straight from Facebook under Settings >> General.

It will dump all of your Facebook chats into an HTML Archive so you can then scroll through the conversations much easier.

It would seem to me that taking screen shots may be a little difficult but I guess a few wouldn't hurt.

The archive dumped out 5000 pages of chats after I had loaded them into Open Office and converted from HTML to txt.

Just my 2 cents

Yup i know about this but i founder a better way don't have to scroll

 

[MelissaJohn]

That facebook chat download app, loads messages that are old on facebook that you think were deleted. I tried loading my 2011 chats from facebook it would only go back to a year ago for some reason so I thought maybe I deleted them by mistake But the app retrieved our very first conversations! Even the setting downloading into a HTLM form didn't load these messages. Just another tip!

 

[fonelab]

If you want to take screenshots on windows or mac, you can easily use FoneLab screen recorder.
It enables you to take a snapshot on both windows or mac, and then you can easily save them to wherever you want.