I am a landed immigrant. I am married to my wife since 2013 January. I just landed this summer here in Ontario. My wife is very strange since I got here. I've seen another side of her that is shocking. She is the one who sponsored me in Canada.
I have been here for 6 months so far. I got us an place to live and she does not even want to live with me because she complains about traffic sounds. She always has an excuse. She is also very bi-polar and will not go see a Dr. at all. For the last few months she has done nothing but beat me and abuse me pretty badly. Breaking my personal belongs, glasses (expensive ones), laptop, just to name a few. This weekend her pulling my hair a number of times. Scratching me so badly that my face has 3 small cuts from her nails. Not to mention her moments for random reasons. Then a few minutes later acts like nothing happens. She keeps threatening to deport me and keep all my money. She likes to drink more then she said she does. She likes going to the Casino also. I am worried and scared to get a joint bank account with her due to her gambling issue I just discovered. Right now I'm having a hard time typing because the skin is peeled off on my finger from her finger nails. Not to mention this week she came here saying she wanted to pay someone to get rid of me. I didn't record that part but I always record her to show how she acts, 1 minute flipping out on me the next minute, she acts like nothing happened and asks if I want to go the gym. If I wear a tshirt that's not for public or just for house use she will start a seen in the apartment. Screaming for random reasons.
I wanted to divorce her but, I just don't believe in giving up so easily to be honest. But now she says she has a lawyer and I know she is full of it. I take screenshots of the things she says in her cell phone with me in a text message. Many times she says she hates me and wishes I would die then the next minute she asks if I want to go out with her in town for a few drinks like nothing happened all within the same minute. I took screenshots just to show how she changes within less then 1 minute. She buys stuff on credit and tells me to pay for it or else I'll get deported and so on. Frankly this is so scary I don't even care to look for a job because with her every week she is filing for divorce. She even took me down to city hall last month and took a day off of work to sign but then the last minute made some kind of an excuse not to go on and sign. And this is going on for nearly 2 months already. Last month I didn't want to give her the car keys because she was in the city had a few drinks and didn't want to give her the car keys back she broke my glasses, ripped my shirt beat me pretty badly (while everything was recorded on my cell phone). Then in the end she got out of the room and said "I'm getting a knife..." then I just threw her the car keys on the ground for her to take it and she left. IT's getting worse and worse and I don't want to call the police or file any reports on her because I know she needs medication. Her birth mom is on medication for this reason and she is not. We are both in our mid 30's.
I was wondering will immigration deport me right away as soon as she files? When I entered Canada I was told I have to be married for 2 years. I pay for everything, our place, the bills, the food, everything but her gas in the car with insurance, everything else I pay for. She keeps telling me she has someone else on the side and has sex with others. Then when she is in a better mood and we are both happy, she tells me she only said this to piss me off and push my buttons. While I have everything recorded.
I read online a few stories and I am not to sure about the law because of my PR. It does expire 5 years after I had landed. And I understand if you divorce in under 2 years they deport you. Is there a way I can stay still or do I have to go?
I did take pictures of my finger, my face, got everything recorded on my cell phone by voice only of how she acts with me. I just don't want to be put in handcuffs because of the way she acts. And the only reason I had to start recording her is when she started saying if I don't pay for things she will deport me. I just wanted to get some kind of a proof just in case things got really bad. I also didn't want to file any reports because she goes to the USA a lot for shopping and I know if she has anything on record she can't go do her shopping. God forbid this happens. Anything she buys she always throws a fight at us and then I just pay for the stuff she just bough in the USA.
What kind of proof would I need to show the law not to get deported FAST? Would I still be able to stay in Canada or would I have to leave as soon as it's filed?
Thank you.
I have been here for 6 months so far. I got us an place to live and she does not even want to live with me because she complains about traffic sounds. She always has an excuse. She is also very bi-polar and will not go see a Dr. at all. For the last few months she has done nothing but beat me and abuse me pretty badly. Breaking my personal belongs, glasses (expensive ones), laptop, just to name a few. This weekend her pulling my hair a number of times. Scratching me so badly that my face has 3 small cuts from her nails. Not to mention her moments for random reasons. Then a few minutes later acts like nothing happens. She keeps threatening to deport me and keep all my money. She likes to drink more then she said she does. She likes going to the Casino also. I am worried and scared to get a joint bank account with her due to her gambling issue I just discovered. Right now I'm having a hard time typing because the skin is peeled off on my finger from her finger nails. Not to mention this week she came here saying she wanted to pay someone to get rid of me. I didn't record that part but I always record her to show how she acts, 1 minute flipping out on me the next minute, she acts like nothing happened and asks if I want to go the gym. If I wear a tshirt that's not for public or just for house use she will start a seen in the apartment. Screaming for random reasons.
I wanted to divorce her but, I just don't believe in giving up so easily to be honest. But now she says she has a lawyer and I know she is full of it. I take screenshots of the things she says in her cell phone with me in a text message. Many times she says she hates me and wishes I would die then the next minute she asks if I want to go out with her in town for a few drinks like nothing happened all within the same minute. I took screenshots just to show how she changes within less then 1 minute. She buys stuff on credit and tells me to pay for it or else I'll get deported and so on. Frankly this is so scary I don't even care to look for a job because with her every week she is filing for divorce. She even took me down to city hall last month and took a day off of work to sign but then the last minute made some kind of an excuse not to go on and sign. And this is going on for nearly 2 months already. Last month I didn't want to give her the car keys because she was in the city had a few drinks and didn't want to give her the car keys back she broke my glasses, ripped my shirt beat me pretty badly (while everything was recorded on my cell phone). Then in the end she got out of the room and said "I'm getting a knife..." then I just threw her the car keys on the ground for her to take it and she left. IT's getting worse and worse and I don't want to call the police or file any reports on her because I know she needs medication. Her birth mom is on medication for this reason and she is not. We are both in our mid 30's.
I was wondering will immigration deport me right away as soon as she files? When I entered Canada I was told I have to be married for 2 years. I pay for everything, our place, the bills, the food, everything but her gas in the car with insurance, everything else I pay for. She keeps telling me she has someone else on the side and has sex with others. Then when she is in a better mood and we are both happy, she tells me she only said this to piss me off and push my buttons. While I have everything recorded.
I read online a few stories and I am not to sure about the law because of my PR. It does expire 5 years after I had landed. And I understand if you divorce in under 2 years they deport you. Is there a way I can stay still or do I have to go?
I did take pictures of my finger, my face, got everything recorded on my cell phone by voice only of how she acts with me. I just don't want to be put in handcuffs because of the way she acts. And the only reason I had to start recording her is when she started saying if I don't pay for things she will deport me. I just wanted to get some kind of a proof just in case things got really bad. I also didn't want to file any reports because she goes to the USA a lot for shopping and I know if she has anything on record she can't go do her shopping. God forbid this happens. Anything she buys she always throws a fight at us and then I just pay for the stuff she just bough in the USA.
What kind of proof would I need to show the law not to get deported FAST? Would I still be able to stay in Canada or would I have to leave as soon as it's filed?
Thank you.