hello everyone please help husband or bill payer

[tim271]

hello every one i got married to a lady 2007 with inland application my file was trasnfer by the cic to the locall office on the reason that my wife that was sponsoring me as a record of marriage of convince and welfer fraud i keep on hoping for the best i latter get the PR january this year, glory be to god after over 3 year i got a job last month which i got my first pay of $2700 i ask how much can i gave are out of the money to pay the bill she said i have to give her all the $2700 becourse all the bill is $2300 and money for food and i told her our rent is $600 why did i have to give her all the $2700 then she tell me i have to be paying for are car and all here credit card and all her expenses i told her but you are working to what will you be doing with your own money then she said that is not my besness i latter told her ok i will give her $2000 then we can keep $700 in the bank then she refuse but i ask her what off if my car break down what am i going to do or were will i get money to fix it then she told me that is when people go to credit card and i told her u know i dont have credit card now but she dont even care now i have to tell her i can not be spending all the money we have to have some save then she told me i have to live the house and said she will call cic to take away my PR can any someone please help

 

[canadianwoman]

She cannot get CIC to take away your PR. You've landed, you have your PR, it is too late for her to tell the gov't she doesn't want to sponsor you. She could tell them it was a fake marriage, but would need proof of that for them to do anything.
She was paying for your living expenses while you could not work, so maybe she thinks you should be paying off some of the credit card expenses she rang up while supporting you.

 

[kelKel]

First off Tim she can't take your PR away. I realize your case was transferred to a local office and it took a long time. Was your wife your means of support while you were waiting in Canada or did u have savings to live off? Maybe she thinks u owe her?

Regardless of the private circumstances if my spouse ever told me it's none of business what they did with their money he'd get an earful and perhaps a divorce. A marriage is a genuine bond between 2 people. You share and cooperate to make a life for yourselves.

When it comes down to it Tim your money is your money u worked for it. You 2 need to discuss sharing responsibility for the bills and she signed on to sponsor u so she is responsible for you for the next 3 years. Remind her if that and maybe shell stop saying she'll take your PR away.

 

[tim271]

Thanks Kelkel and canadianwoman i agreed to be giving her $2000 out of my 2700 but she dont whant as you know i have to buy gas for my car to be able to go to work and have some little money with me if my car break down and also for the 3 years i do pay out of the bill too i really dont knopw why she is telling me she will call cic on me

 

[Tiggilicious]

Tim, she is just threatening you. Its an empty threat. CIC can't do anything at all at this point. You work for your money, you have a valid say in where you believe the money that you earned should go. Just like a previous poster said, if my spouse told me its none of my business where they spend their money, I would be extremely suspicious. But that is just me. I hope things get better for you.

 

[tim271]

thanks Tiggilicious i really appriciate it

 

[tim271]

thanks Tiggilicious

 

[tim271]

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