To me there is only one answer to your question: if your relation is genuine, you will easily get all the proof needed for your application and may not even face interview. If u still get an interview and it’s a true and genuine relation, you will clear it... don’t stress about what someone may think. Gather all necessary proof instead!!!. Meet after marriage too, take Trips, send each other gifts, communicate with each other’s families, would be nice if he had sent u some money from time to me... just live your life... make plans for the future and take it easy.
I don’t have big age difference with my hubby, I am just 4 years older. But we are different cultures and religions, so far we received pre arrival.
Thanks a lot for your reply.
we sent gifts to each other after submitting the application too. and we do more. he visited me after 8 months of our marriage for a wedding party in Iran which was on December. we did book ticket for a visit for this September too but our bad luck they started garnishing his salary for student loan so we had to cancel the visit. we totally had 3 visits and we love to have more visits but money problem make it hard.
I know everything about my husband and I have no doubt that I can answer all the questions about him but when I hear some people tells even after interview red flags will have the same influence on officers decision make me scared a lot.