I do agree with you it's tough though but i know with my salary i can manage very good ALHAMDULILLAH and if my wife wants to work she's allowed but being man of home it's my responsibility to fullfill requirments of my family ......& honestly the salary package which they proposed me is 100 times better than what i am getting here .....inviting her here is my decision coz from december till may of i've lived 3 months in toronto and now i cannot afford to go back without pay as paid holidays finished