Hello .
I need a good advice , my situation is very difficult so please ,when you would read it and if you know what to do in my case let me know ASAP but if you dont, dont answer back because its very serious, and i need only real facts to this topic.Thank you.
I'm permanent resident of Canada (4years) now im also married ti the Canadian citizen and i'm planning to become one as well, I have younger sister who's 12 years old , she is staying with our mother who's interests not to look after my sister, after i left Russia i thought if i would support my mother financially she would have pliantly of time to give my sister all parent care she would need, my mother doesn't work .I'm supporting them for 4 years from Canada by monthly payment 500$ at least and i haven't miss a payment i also pay my bills regularly in Canada and we(me and my husband) own a house here in Yukon Territory.But my mother doesn't look after my sister property and always put her in danger ..such as dont teach her what is right or wrong , she usually dont cook to my sister dont wash her clothes and stuff like that but the worse thing that happening atm is that my sister feel lonely and not needed not loved not cared about at home , which start bringing different issues to her life such as drinking , smoking and being friends with same kind of kids . i'm scared for her future and life .My mother just married dangerous man who are spend almost all his life in prison by stealing things from ppl ....My sister also feared for her life .but my mother dosn't seems to be caring much , she also drinks with him.Sometimes my mother abuses my sister fiscally by hitting her in the face if my sister tells me whats is going on .... we do have grandmother in same town but sadly my grandmother not better then my mother , by the father line family we are not communicating and my dearest father is dead .To go to police in that case , that would mean that they are going to do all they can which in Russia not much , taking her away from mother +putting her in baby houses (in Canada there is no such thing) but in Russia that means to the terrible place with also dangerous kids and the teachers that dont look after kids, in such places those ppl thaat work there dont give a damn about those kids, because of the little paycheck they are getting for doing that , there was many story's in the news about kids like that and their deaths . I do not wish this to my baby girl sister , she is very good girl by herself and also to the story of her school, her grades went so much down she doesn't do home work which all her teachers could prove and the class teacher never seen our mother on any kind of parent conferences with parents about grades and school like of kids.I need ur advice because its hurting her life very much and its doesn't let me live happy and i think im in depression over that, i think i need visit a doctor to talk about that i hardly sleep at nights and its effecting my marriage and social life .However i went million times thru looking for any information for my case . the only way i found is if my mother decline her mothers responsibilities on my sister and then i would adopt her from Canada , which not an option because once my mother give up on my sister the law agents would take her to that children house anyway and there is no guaranties that i would find her for adoption at all .Im lost and i begging anyone who knows any way for my situation, to share their knowledge with me .Im disappointed in some Canada's rules about my sister being to me a far part of family and someone like grandmother being close when all our life we go shoulder to shoulder with our brothers and sisters !!! However i had to accept that but is there any exceptional for cases like mine ? i believe there should be ! because Canada is all about family and protective in cases like that .Because i might not her biologic mother but i'm her sponsor for 9years (which i have prove of)and im the person who is communicating with her school and teachers .My sister is living not stabilize life full of danger which effecting her abilities to be happy and live healthy . I'm the only family that cares she have , please help us. Thank you
:-X :'(
Nadia.
I need a good advice , my situation is very difficult so please ,when you would read it and if you know what to do in my case let me know ASAP but if you dont, dont answer back because its very serious, and i need only real facts to this topic.Thank you.
I'm permanent resident of Canada (4years) now im also married ti the Canadian citizen and i'm planning to become one as well, I have younger sister who's 12 years old , she is staying with our mother who's interests not to look after my sister, after i left Russia i thought if i would support my mother financially she would have pliantly of time to give my sister all parent care she would need, my mother doesn't work .I'm supporting them for 4 years from Canada by monthly payment 500$ at least and i haven't miss a payment i also pay my bills regularly in Canada and we(me and my husband) own a house here in Yukon Territory.But my mother doesn't look after my sister property and always put her in danger ..such as dont teach her what is right or wrong , she usually dont cook to my sister dont wash her clothes and stuff like that but the worse thing that happening atm is that my sister feel lonely and not needed not loved not cared about at home , which start bringing different issues to her life such as drinking , smoking and being friends with same kind of kids . i'm scared for her future and life .My mother just married dangerous man who are spend almost all his life in prison by stealing things from ppl ....My sister also feared for her life .but my mother dosn't seems to be caring much , she also drinks with him.Sometimes my mother abuses my sister fiscally by hitting her in the face if my sister tells me whats is going on .... we do have grandmother in same town but sadly my grandmother not better then my mother , by the father line family we are not communicating and my dearest father is dead .To go to police in that case , that would mean that they are going to do all they can which in Russia not much , taking her away from mother +putting her in baby houses (in Canada there is no such thing) but in Russia that means to the terrible place with also dangerous kids and the teachers that dont look after kids, in such places those ppl thaat work there dont give a damn about those kids, because of the little paycheck they are getting for doing that , there was many story's in the news about kids like that and their deaths . I do not wish this to my baby girl sister , she is very good girl by herself and also to the story of her school, her grades went so much down she doesn't do home work which all her teachers could prove and the class teacher never seen our mother on any kind of parent conferences with parents about grades and school like of kids.I need ur advice because its hurting her life very much and its doesn't let me live happy and i think im in depression over that, i think i need visit a doctor to talk about that i hardly sleep at nights and its effecting my marriage and social life .However i went million times thru looking for any information for my case . the only way i found is if my mother decline her mothers responsibilities on my sister and then i would adopt her from Canada , which not an option because once my mother give up on my sister the law agents would take her to that children house anyway and there is no guaranties that i would find her for adoption at all .Im lost and i begging anyone who knows any way for my situation, to share their knowledge with me .Im disappointed in some Canada's rules about my sister being to me a far part of family and someone like grandmother being close when all our life we go shoulder to shoulder with our brothers and sisters !!! However i had to accept that but is there any exceptional for cases like mine ? i believe there should be ! because Canada is all about family and protective in cases like that .Because i might not her biologic mother but i'm her sponsor for 9years (which i have prove of)and im the person who is communicating with her school and teachers .My sister is living not stabilize life full of danger which effecting her abilities to be happy and live healthy . I'm the only family that cares she have , please help us. Thank you
:-X :'(Nadia.
