Hi Wintersnow, nice to hear from you. My husband and I both are in China now. If we don't get ADR, we probably will just quit appealing, and reapply. Oops, not pregnant yet, but we are hoping to have a kid in the future. All the documents from CIC, if there is any, will be sent to my husband's Canada mailing address which is also his daughter's house ( he has a daughter and a son from last marriage ). Hope with her help, we will go through no problem. I also really hope to get ADR, in about 2 month, I think we can just call the ADR and find out, I heard it will be told that which queue ( ADR or full hearing ) we have been assigned in.
By the way, may I know whats the cost of your lawyer/consultant ? We are doing it all by ourselves, but if necessary, we might go for lawyer.
Thank you and good luck to both of us. May you and your wife will be together soon.