Yes, I later amended that I am not saying you cannot succeed as is. There are so many variables, even the type of Officer that picks up your application...some are cool and some are heavily suspicious, or maybe prejudice....I reckon the exact same app being processed by two different officers can have two different outcomes....this isnt an exact science by any means.You spoke so well but not case all the same. I have someone with only 2 visits and there are no problems. First visit was for marriage and second visit was for anniversary and the Sponsor is older with some few age and the application was successful. Nobody is saying i should address every red flags on my love letter tp clarify them with it. My wife can't get more than 21days vacation from work because she work with the government and there is prove for that also.
In all i think addressing all red flags on a our love letter will be more better.