canuck_in_uk said:
Marrying a few months after meeting is a red flag but can be overcome. How did you meet? How much time did you spend together in person before you married? Do you live together? If not, do you visit a lot?
The small court wedding is not a red flag for you guys; it is only an issue when the cultural norm is a big religious wedding, such as in India. The fact that your parents couldn't come is easily overcome by showing they support the relationship; money is an understandable reason for not being able to travel for the wedding.
Your religion is not a red flag. Again, this is more cultural-specific where it is rare or even forbidden to marry outside a faith.
We met at my sisters wedding. He met most of my family there too, sisters, parents, aunts, uncles and cousins.
I then saw him a week. I do not have a lot of vacation times;
We did not live together, he has his own house and i stay there when i come.
Mostly we talk by video chat.
we talked for A few months this way and we decided that is what we wanted, live together and have a family
We got married.
We did not file right away however. We looked at maybe me going there first
Then saved money for medical and filing
Married in april 2016
But filed in dec 2016
I came there again in dec 2016 and jan 2017, and stayed almost a month with him and his family this time.
Thats it..
We talk all day every day, and every chance we get for now. We both work so we talk, morning breaks and evening and when off sometimes all day

thats all we can do, Until i visit again next month.