Given your current situation and asylum, history expects a lot of scrutiny of your relationship. As a spouse of a WP holder or international student, you aren’t guaranteed status in Canada. Do you have a long dating history with this person? Good documentation of your relationship? Your situation is very complex because you are currently inadmissible and waiting to see if you qualify for PPRA. Given it has been so long I would be following up with CBSA. Have you changed addresses or lawyers in case CBSA has been trying to contact you?