CHC, Islamabad Spouse Sponsorship Timeline 2009 -2010

[sidney]

Hey Sidney hasnt knaeem received his passport back yet?

No not yet

 

[wish he was here]

i agree, the first year your fine and then your feelings take over

Yep, that's how it was with me. I was fine for a few months when I came back then it started to get difficult to be far away and then it started to feel like a dream.

ONE 2 KA 4 I like your post

You know, to find out if something is a dream you pinch yourself, right? Mai thori emotional huwi wi thi to apne shauhar se sawal keeya k kiya sachi me aap mere hi haina, to kehte hai yaar kiya doubt hai muj par. lol Maine kaha nahi, make sure karna chahti thi k aap eik khawb nahi, k jo huwa sachi me huwa. To baad me e-mail karte hain k ji mai tumhara hon aur humesha rahunga. He's so sweet and clearly much more patient than I. Yaar sachi me kabhi kabhar aisa lagta hai k sab khawb tha. This wait is too long. Allah par bharosa hai, eham eham kaam mere Allah ne hi kiye hain aur mai janti hon k agar muj par hota to kabhi na karpati. Sirf masla kiya hai k emotional ho jati hon aur ghar par kisi ko batana nahi chahti aur shauhar ko tension nahi daina chahti to yahan apna dil ka dukhra ro deti hon. lol Thanks for reading and for not minding my complaints.

Inshallah hum sab k ye kaam jaldi hona shuru ho jayainge. Allah hum sab k saath hain.

 

[ONE 2 KA 4]

Wish he was Here. Behin G. You are most welcome to share your feeling here No we dont mind at all atleast not me. I like to joke around especially in punjabi. "Akh ladi bado badi, Muka mile kadi kadi, kal nahi kisi ne dekhi maza laiye aj da"

As a brother I advice, once a while its ok in saying shak on husband but try not to make a habbit as husbands dont like when they here SHAK from wifes.

"Kundi kharki na hoya kharak, oh dil ley gya munda ay chalak, haye ni menu khabir na hoi" ;D

We all are newly married couples here so enjoye the time while case is in process. Those sister & bajies who still feel shyness from their hubbys let me know as I may have a punjabi song for them to listen and to lough.

 

[mahmed17]

Wish he was Here. Behin G. You are most welcome to share your feeling here No we dont mind at all atleast not me. I like to joke around especially in punjabi. "Akh ladi bado badi, Muka mile kadi kadi, kal nahi kisi ne dekhi maza laiye aj da"

As a brother I advice, once a while its ok in saying shak on husband but try not to make a habbit as husbands dont like when they here SHAK from wifes.

"Kundi kharki na hoya kharak, oh dil ley gya munda ay chalak, haye ni menu khabir na hoi" ;D

We all are newly married couples here so enjoye the time while case is in process. Those sister & bajies who still feel shyness from their hubbys let me know as I may have a punjabi song for them to listen and to lough.

I want to hear this punjabi song and laugh even though i don't feel shy with my husband lol and i don't do shak on him but as joke i say to him "mari qadar hi koini tussi menu yaad hi koini karday" or if he doesn't call me in two days then I say to him "shukar ha saani v yaad kar leya" lool he will always say something like "tenu te aik minute wasti na phone kara te pata nahin qiyamat hi a jandi ah" LOL allhumdulillah we are a couple who likes to joke around with each other it helps to make time pass easier...

anytime i am angry with him he will make me laugh somehow and the most beautiful thing is although there is so much distance we are there for each other through the laughs and cries so i think everyone who is away from each other it is important to have fun and joke with each other and try and make the best of this time inshAllah Allah will unite us all.

 

[wish he was here]

oh no no, mai shak nahi karti apne shauhar par. I love him very much and I know he loves me very much too. lol sirf kabhi yakeen nahi ata k sachi me Allah ne mujhe itna acha shauhar diya. So ye sawal karne ka maqsad tha shauhar se k kiya husband ji, are you real? lol You know jab koi cheeze khawb lage to aap apne aap ko noch te ho pata laga ne k liye kiya k sach hai aur kiya khawb. To obviously husband ko aisa nahi kar sakti, isliye k dur hain to pata lagane k liye ye ajeeb sa sawal kiye, make sure karne k husband koi khawb nahi. Kabhi jab itni dair eik dosre se dur ho to lagta hai k koi khawb dekha hoga.

Unfortunately mujhe punjabi itni samaj nahi ati, koshish hai k samaj aa jaye. Mai yahan bari huwi hon to jitni urdu ati hai, apni Ammi aur Abu se seekha. Aur ye jo roman urdu likhna seekha, wo shauhar se seekha.

 

[ONE 2 KA 4]

Mahmed sister, sent you a PM msg. plz check hope you will enjoye.

 

[andeera1]

I m so sad today !!! Feeling hopeless nd helpless!!! Allah kiu nh sunta,???i cried everyday many times it hurt a lottt really alottt i cnt share my feelings wd any1 bcz sab yehi kehty hain dun wrry he gona b wd u soon!!! Huhhh bt nobdy tells me whn hez gna b wd me,,, any day any date jo mughe bata de k tum is year is mnth sath rhogay tu sukoon hi ajaye atleast,,,, its gttin harder n harder day by day ;; im plannin to spend Eid wd my hubby bt can only get 3 weeks vacation!!! 3 weeks r nuthng .... So helpless miss my honey a lottttt feels lke dieing inside day by day may Allah hrlp me n every one aameen

 

[wish he was here]

I m so sad today !!! Feeling hopeless nd helpless!!! Allah kiu nh sunta,???i cried everyday many times it hurt a lottt really alottt i cnt share my feelings wd any1 bcz sab yehi kehty hain dun wrry he gona b wd u soon!!! Huhhh bt nobdy tells me whn hez gna b wd me,,, any day any date jo mughe bata de k tum is year is mnth sath rhogay tu sukoon hi ajaye atleast,,,, its gttin harder n harder day by day ;; im plannin to spend Eid wd my hubby bt can only get 3 weeks vacation!!! 3 weeks r nuthng .... So helpless miss my honey a lottttt feels lke dieing inside day by day may Allah hrlp me n every one aameen

*HUGS*
Ameen

 

[ONE 2 KA 4]

Andeera dont be sad share your feeling here atleast with me. do you understand punjabi?

 

[andeera1]

Thx bt ......... i really miss my hubby a lot tday i cnt evn sleep nw adays anywaysss thxxxxxxxx

 

[andeera1]

Share karne s kia hoga???? Nuthng Her namaz ma i share wd Allah,,,, saal hone wala ha share kartay or rote howe,,,,, yeah i understand bt cnt speak my dad knows vry well bt i understand too

 

[ayesha_a]

Lucky you, you got to go on honeymoon ehh.. I was like.. Either i go on my honeymoon for a week OR Dawats + Bakra Eid in Pakistan. I went with the later. I was kidding with my wife that ppl go for honeymoon outside Pakistan so technically when you come to canada you will be outside Pakistan and we ll go to Niagara falls for honeymoon which is 2 hours drive from toronto.. She was like.. yeah.. that sounds good to me. I am like ???

Lol, my husband tried the same strategy!We ended up attending a few dawats post wedding and then post honeymoon. We went for a week right after wedding-and it was a surprise from him! He told me the wrong date of his return so i kept thinking he will be going back but actually, we were leaving together But everything happened in fastforward-the functions, dawats, honeymoon...So much planning and then suddenly all the events over.. But you tricked your wife into attending dawats and skipping the honeymoon, so unfair!

 

[ayesha_a]

Aww Andeera! *hugs*
Dont worry, God is listening. Just take it this way, every marriage, every relationship goes through its own ups and downs, sees is own rough times. In your case, and in every case, its just happened a little earlier. I think this time, when we are all away from our significant other, is making us realize what we are without them. Which is, NOTHING. They're going through the same phase too. So inshAllah, when you're both together, and so are all of us, we'll really really cherish our relationship and make everything work

Just consider this a loooooong transition, and soon, this would be over too

 

[ONE 2 KA 4]

Bale vi Bale, ladies ne tu honeymoon ka zikr start kya howa hy aur weekend manaya ja raha hy. I should ask my Jatti to join the form and participate in ladies conversation.

***Mar javan mukran kadi na - Tere bina nahi mein jina - Mein anghoti tu nagina***

 

[bestplace4u]

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