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21Goose

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She is terminal and wants me to take care of the kids and also the father wants to leave and work somewhere and will be away for couple ,wontbe home alot for months . So it's like he wants to leave the kids and his wife responsibility to me and he wants to work to save for his future .I'm not sure if he will support them though. He plans to leave his family
There's no guaranteed way to get H&C. Your lawyer should have explained your chances and you should understand that it's not a 100% guarantee. The only thing you can do is apply (with the help of a good lawyer), and hope for the best.
 

kieranangell

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Also you need to be communicating with your sister and her husband about the plans for the family if she passes away. The father is still their father so he needs to be involved in this discussion. It


It is up to you. There is still the issue that the father is alive and will have custody of the children if your sister dies. Unfortunately if your sister passes way theu still have a family member who is a PR or citizen. One of the reasons that you should be forcing the father to get more involved with his children. If you do everything he doesn't have to do anything.
He says apply h & c coz I plan to leave and be gone to work driving truck across the country . That's what my brother in law says .
 

kieranangell

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There's no guaranteed way to get H&C. Your lawyer should have explained your chances and you should understand that it's not a 100% guarantee. The only thing you can do is apply (with the help of a good lawyer), and hope for the best.
The lawyer is charging more than 10k if I will pursue. Should I Gamble and put my whole savings into it ?
 

kieranangell

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My brother in law is putting me in a very difficult situation and he's whole family. I lost my job coz he don't want to support my sister doing treatment. And now I can't leave coz I can't get a good answer if he will stay or not and I'm running our of timecoz I need to restore my status .so i don't know.
 

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The lawyer is charging more than 10k if I will pursue. Should I Gamble and put my whole savings into it ?
None of us can made this decision for you. H&C is far from guaranteed - refusal rates are quite high.

This is a choice only you can make.
 

kieranangell

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There's no guaranteed way to get H&C. Your lawyer should have explained your chances and you should understand that it's not a 100% guarantee. The only thing you can do is apply (with the help of a good lawyer), and hope for the best.
The lawyer says he's very positive , it will get approved . I'm not sure , how he's very positive about it. Like 95 percent he said . :(
 

21Goose

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The lawyer says he's very positive , it will get approved . I'm not sure , how he's very positive about it. Like 95 percent he said . :(
Get a second opinion before spending all your savings. That's too much money and too much certainty from this lawyer. I would be careful - if you spend all your money and you don't get it, the lawyer can simply say "too bad", and you're out 10K.

If you're in Toronto/GTA there are many lawyers here. Spend some time finding someone whom you can trust. Don't go with the first one who promises the moon in exchange for a fat fee.
 
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kieranangell

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Get a second opinion before spending all your savings. That's too much money and too much certainty from this lawyer. I would be careful - if you spend all your money and you don't get it, the lawyer can simply say "too bad", and you're out 10K.

If you're in Toronto/GTA there are many lawyers here. Spend some time finding someone whom you can trust. Don't go with the first one who promises the moon in exchange for a fat fee.
Thank you , I will do that.
 

canuck78

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You also have to talk to your brother-in-law. These are his children and they are not your responsibility they are his. He should be reassessing his plans knowing he will become a single parent. I would not do everything for the children and try to get him to do some stuff. Perhaps there is a social worker at the children’s school and you could meet the 3 of you to discuss supporting the children through a difficult transition time. There may be a social worker at the cancer clinic if the school isn’t an option. Although you are doing all the caregiving, you aren’t their guardians which could create issues if you had to go to the doctor, sign school forms, etc.
 

kieranangell

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Can I restore my visitor Visa before it expires ?. If h & c is not the way to go , I just want to extend my stay at least . My multiple entry will expire next year January.
 

kieranangell

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You also have to talk to your brother-in-law. These are his children and they are not your responsibility they are his. He should be reassessing his plans knowing he will become a single parent. I would not do everything for the children and try to get him to do some stuff. Perhaps there is a social worker at the children’s school and you could meet the 3 of you to discuss supporting the children through a difficult transition time. There may be a social worker at the cancer clinic if the school isn’t an option. Although you are doing all the caregiving, you aren’t their guardians which could create issues if you had to go to the doctor, sign school forms, etc.
He's plan is to make more money for his future and kids future he says, Which I don't think so its more of his future he's thinking here . He doesn't care anymore if my sister is still fighting or not he consider her dead already . My sister also consider filing for divorce or separating from her husband but she's thinking twice coz she don't have any relatives here and my status is not guaranteed.
 

scylla

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The lawyer says he's very positive , it will get approved . I'm not sure , how he's very positive about it. Like 95 percent he said . :(
IMO no lawyer should be saying that approval is 95%. I would get two other opinions.
 
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jddd

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She is terminal and wants me to take care of the kids and also the father wants to leave and work somewhere and will be away for couple ,wontbe home alot for months . So it's like he wants to leave the kids and his wife responsibility to me and he wants to work to save for his future .I'm not sure if he will support them though. He plans to leave his family
like I said, get another opinion. Have proof of everything you are saying. That is my advice. 95% chance of success? I call bull on that lawyer. No one can guarantee 95%.
 
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hawk39

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He threaten to get me deported that's why I can't argue with him . To be honest he treats us like a slave , I cook him food , wash the kids , pick kids to and from school .all he does is watch TV . My sister eventhough she's terminal still try to work coz he only pay rent that's all. And we were told be thankful he's paying rent
I don't want to sound heartless, but by your own admittance, it sounds like you are enabling your brother-in-law's irresponsibility. If you were to leave Canada, maybe it would force him to start taking care of the children. Because your sister's illness is terminal, she should be in hospice care through the province's health care system, so you don't have to be the one to take care of her. If you were just to extend your stay, you would just continue to enable your deadbeat brother-in-law, and others have already pointed out that by being your sister's and her children's caregiver without a work permit, you are essentially working in Canada illegally.
 
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