missmymexi said:We found out to late about the common law sponsorship but we are doing it now. He had never had a run in with the police here or in his home country, he is just another hard working guy looking after his family and this is why we won the hearing, because it was more than obvious, plus we had tons of proof already about us that was used at the hearing. So yes, he did have plenty of time to set things right, I agree, but we dont always make the right decisions in our lives and in turn have to pay for them and he is doing that now by stuggling in his home country and being apart from us. Which is why I bring it up here, the original poster should consider this scenario, its easy to make the wrong the choice.
That's why it is SO important that you are sharing your story. "We didn't know" is often the reason CIC/CBSA hear about mistakes in immigration and one that they will not accept. But that doesn't mean it's not true! In your case, it was true and led to very sad circumstances and a long fight. Sharing this information beyond this board would help a lot of people who listen to what others tell them who know NOTHING about the law and immigration issues to Canada. Here you are in a genuine relationship and having to go through all of this when much of it could have been avoided. So good for you for sharing this story and I hope you continue to pay it forward, by sharing it with others so they can avoid the same fate of a long fight and separation from a loved one. I'll bet you can look back now and WISH you had spent a few hours on the internet to find this forum or had spent that few hundred dollars on some legal advice in the beginning. Yes, it's easy to make the wrong choice but hopefully your story will help others to make the right choice, as hard as it may seem at the time. Most people try to hide the "wrong" choices they made in the past but I'm happy you are open to sharing your experience so people learn of the devastating consequences of regular, hard working people who are not a threat to Canada, but just didn't learn about the rules or make the right choices at the right time. +1 for you.